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ReplyDeleteOldWomanInAShoe - May 19, 2020 at 7:25 PM
Ev (4.01)
Prosopagnosia, also known as face blindness (easier to spell!)
Have you tried the Cambridge Face Memory Test?
It's also worth looking up apantasia.
It's all a fascinating subject - at least, it is to some of us. Others in this blog got rather bored last time when we discussed it for too long so I shall shut up.
(But it probably helps explain why so many of my DIDs feature words rather than being purely instrumental.)
Miriam - May 19, 2020 at 7:49 PM
OWIAS.
Your DID list was just brilliant, and I truly loved it.
✔✔🤗.
Miriam - May 19, 2020 at 7:55 PM
Who could not like:-
Haydn's Creation.
Peer Gynt Suite.
Beethoven Symphony No.9.
The Carpenters.
These were great choices.
I wasn't bored Ev and Owias. In fact my daughter has now done the CFMT test you recommended and as she expected she got a low score of 42%, but it was very helpful to her to have that confirmation. I got 61%.
DeleteI think that face dislexia can sometimes be linked to aspergers spectrum.
Sylvie has learnt to adjust to the world but it has not been easy for her. She is extremely bright (has a languages degree, and is now studying in her spare time for an open university planetary science and astronomy degree) but has not reached her full potential workwise due to being, not hugely so, but somewhere on the aspergers spectrum. She can find the world an overwhelming place sometimes, the kind of stimuli most people wouldn't react to she finds overpowering. It may be partly why she found she was unable to continue living in London, with all the noise and rush. As a parent you want so much to make everything better for your child, and there have been times in the past when I have felt so helpless to help; but having said that she has now developed a way of successfully dealing with life. She will always I think need to take times out when she can be totally alone, and she likes walking in the dusk/dark, I think because there is less stimulation to the senses then.
So, never think that because people might not comment that they are not interested. I often find things useful here but don't necessarily mention it. Thanks.
Mr. Grieg sported quite a hairdo didn't he!!
ReplyDeleteHe ordered some hair clippers but Amazon orders tended to take a while in the early days ...
DeleteFurther news about BBC Four (from the front page of The Times and last nights Radio 4 News at Ten):
ReplyDelete‘The BBC are planning cuts to channels One, Two and Four in order to double spending on the Corporations youth network. They are considering reviving BBC Three as a broadcast channel after consigning it to online four years ago. There are fears BBC Four could be closed to make room in the schedules’
And why are they doing this? Apparently, it’s to concentrate resources on the 16 - 34 age group after the success of such shows as Normal People, Fleabag and Killing Ève!
I don’t know about anyone else on this blog, but I did watch one ( and only one) episode of each of those programmes and certainly didn’t want to watch any more! General foul language, gratuitous violence in one of them and virtual pornography in the other two - not for me I’m afraid!
It feels to me that our national broadcasting company is throwing the older generation on the rubbish heap in the interest of trying to compete with companies such as Netflix.
Lord Reith would be spinning in his grave!
I feel yet another letter to the Director General, or his successor, coming on. 😡
Archerphile, I've not watched any of the ones you mentioned as I have no access, have only heard rave reviews which I found unconvincing, so I'll accept your judgement as my guide. One of the titles is chilling for a start, as for being normal it's probably not what I would call normal due to my age.
ReplyDeleteI think the BBC has lost the plot! As for competing, unlike the other companies they can just sit back and wait for the licence fees to come in! Archerfile’s account of the content of the new programmes is chilling. Violence, gratuitous sex and foul language are neither necessary or generally desired. What are they thinking? Incidentally on Netflix we have enjoyed the Crown series and currently “The Good Place” both of which contain none of the above!
ReplyDeleteI have to agree with you all but thought I was being too old-fashioned. I was really annoyed when, a while back, every night after the 10pm news the CA would say 'Now we hand over to BBC3 for.... ' Every programme came with a warning about violence, language and sex scenes. It seems that nothing on BBC3 came 'clean!'
ReplyDeleteWhatever happened to inform, entertain and educate?
Killing Eve I avoided because I assumed it was violent and the level of violence on TV has gone past my tolerance level. I hadn't watched 'Normal people' because I have dealt with too many teenagers in my career to be entertained by teenage angst . However I did sort of watch (on in the background whilst doing an online jigsaw) one episode of Fleabag and to be honest I was appalled at the content. Yes - I'd say it was pornography.
It saddened me that the BBC (and so many others) seem to think that programmes like that are what 'the people' want? Or could it be Emperor's new clothes syndrome? We can always hope I suppose.
Four or five years ago the British Museum (I think) ran a scheme where Cub packs could stay overnight and one of my assistants organised this event as part of his training. The Cubs had a sleepover then were given a ticket into a Grayson Perry exhibition the next morning. I sat outside as a focal/meeting point and the assistant came out after a while quite upset. The exhibition was deemed suitable for 8 years upwards. However not to me! It included some Teddy Bears which had been modified and remodelled to show them in a 'state of excitement' shall we say. The leaders apparently stood across the aisle in a line to prevent the Cubs (boys and girls) from viewing this 'work of art.' I did complain but got the brush off! Felt like Mrs Whitehouse!
I read online at BBC that they denied planning to close down BBC4. But cutting it back may mean putting it online only? I must admit I have hardly ever watched it but may be more aware of it in future.
I am seriously considering giving up paying for a licence and just going online only but that would probably have to wait till I live alone as Jon and I (once or twice a week) watch a programme together.
I did say I was going to plant potatoes today before it got too hot. Better get on with it!
Spicy - re the British Museum outing.....my grandson was part of a group of cubs (I think it was before he became a Scout) who spent overnight at the Natural History Museum. He was potty about dinosaurs at the time and thoroughly enjoyed bedding down amongst the exhibits. I think I’m right in saying animal roars were heard and a tour amongst the exhibits was conducted by torchlight. Anyway he thought it was brill, though some if the little girl cubs were quite frightened.
DeleteI’m afraid modern “Art” is a case of the king’s new clothes. How can anybody seriously enthuse about Perry’s teddy bears or Emin’s unmade bed. They must laugh all the way to the bank! Those cubs should never have been given tickets to that exhibition. It does sound a nice idea to bed down overnight but yes, must be a bit spooky! It is awful to feel like Mrs Whitehouse if you complain, Spicy but why go with the flow? We need to speak out when we feel uncomfortable!
DeleteHave to say that the ticket was part of the deal, but it was a very short viewing by cubs. We ended up catching an earlier train and spent the journey home telephoning parents to warn them we were an hour early!
DeleteJust received a lovely photo of 12 year old Grandson Griff doing boat-schooling!
ReplyDeleteMy daughter and family are now allowed to visit their narrow boat in the marina at Newbury, as long as it’s only a day visit and not an overnight stay. So Griff has taken his online school work with him and appears to be working hard with his laptop at one table, whilst his Dad is doing the same at the other table.
They are not allowed to cruise along the canals yet as all the locks are closed, but at least they can enjoy a day aboard and do essential maintenance.
I agree with most of the sentiments written above and feel much the same.
ReplyDeleteI watched about five minutes of Fleabag and was appalled.
Killing Eve simply has not appealed and wondered about Normal People and asked G daughters about it. When discovered it was teenagers, that didn't appeal either.
When I think back to my youthful years, and my attitudes towards changing society from the tight moral codes of the time, to a more relaxed attitude towards personal freedom of expression, then I have to stand up and be counted as being at least partially responsible for society today.
But as time passes maturity brings ones attitudes to be modified and sometimes changed.
And mine have.
Society has changed and most people have benefited from at least some of those changes. But the same changes disturb us now probably because of our maturity.
I can only recognise the change in me and hope that the same will be true for the young now in their future tomorrow.
I once knew someone who worked for the Board of Film Censors.
ReplyDeleteApparently they had regular roadshows and focus groups to establish what the general public would or would not deem acceptable in the variously certificated films. The range of acceptability had markedly increased over the years, and the age at which things were deemed acceptable had gone down.
My impression was that the original idea of the Censors was to protect the public from itself. Clearly I was mistaken.
On a similar point, I receive various notifications about what various bodies promote as acceptable 'age appropriate' sex education material for schools. The topics and details that some recommend for children as young a 5 would horrify you.
This, of course, has nothing to do with the likelihood that earlier and more 'adventurous' sexual activity will lead to more business for abortion providers than that old-fashioned idea, abstinence, would.
At the moment the only programmes we watch on the television are Gardeners World (watching a bit of Chelsea this week too),The "A" word and the quiz programme with Richard Osman and unknown "Celebrities ".
ReplyDeleteWe subscribe to Sky television but never watch it now that there is no sport.
I am prepared to allow Archerphile to sift out the rubbish that is obviously being shown and to inform me what not to watch and if by any remote chance something is ,in her opinion ,worthwhile watching I would be pleased to read about it.
I trust her judgement
Like Ev says, the BBC has lost the plot.
I think I am morphing into Carole Klein!
ReplyDeleteI have already got the accent .
I have spent the past few weeks in the garden although I have been mainly in a hole digging out soil and stones rather than propagating plants.
I have the nails which in spite of using gloves get dirty. ( swarfega after each session) and I have certainly developed the hairstyle .
🤣🤣🤣 what a self portrait you paint of yourself LJ!
DeleteI do hope you don't go the whole hog LJ.
ReplyDeleteI can't stand the woman.
I am watching so much on Aunty Beeb. These are often repeats, which I didn't see the 1st time round.
ReplyDeleteMy latest has been The Great Interior Design Challenge.
I am also loving The Repair Shop and The Great British Sewing Bee, plus so many more, not forgetting Doctors, (watched whilst eating or digesting lunch).
To add.
ReplyDeleteI have not been able to enjoy my garden today, due to the strong acrid burnt smell, wafting over from the other property. They are waiting for an insurance assesor to visit, before this debris can be removed.
My time in my own garden is so spoilt, at the moment.
At least with such a sunny day, loads of washing have been dried.
DeleteThis included, all that I wore yesterday when clearing up, my back garden. This included a pair of gardening gloves + leather trainers (machine washable) as everything was covered in black soot.
I saw the end of The One Show tonight, when the head teacher, of the school my grand niece attends (in normal times), was given a Thank-You...
ReplyDelete🤗 how nice Miriam.
DeleteI noticed Anneveggie, mentioned Mr. Griegs hair.
ReplyDeleteThis style is now known as "Lockdown Hair" and is very in vogue.
Ha ha, I can understand why. My own hair badly needs some attention but won't get it for a while yet.
DeleteLanjan - you are putting a huge responsibility on my shoulders if you really wish me to censor TV programmes for you!
ReplyDeleteLike Miriam I enjoy Repair Shop, the Sewing Bee ( though it does seem to rather overdo the innuendo this year), gardening programmes without Monty Don or Carol Klein and dramas without swearing, sex or violence (few and far between)
But... I also love Countdown, slow TV programmes like the canal trip and Great Wall of China one, and Would I Lie to You which makes us laugh out loud.
So, these might not be to you taste and I should feel very responsible for boring, or shocking you!
Are you sure you’ll trust me? 😉
In truth Archerphile ,now that there is no sport on the television we rarely turn it on and never before 6pm anyway.
ReplyDeleteI did watch "The A word " on catch up last night which I really enjoyed but resisted the urge to watch a re run of Chelsea..
You are right of course.
We all have our favourites
My favourite programme at the moment is Car Share on Friday nights at 9.30pm. It does have the F word in it occasionally but the two characters are so beautifully drawn they are totally believable. It was written by Peter Kay and Sian Gibson and they left the last episode 'open.' There was such an outcry from fans that they wrote an extra two episodes. Peter Kay said he wanted something to cheer people up at this time.
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed last night's Repair Shop. It showed, I think, more of the skills of the experts than the previous episodes, which seemed to have brought in more of the 'sob stories' that other programmes have. The delicate and thoughtful work of the book-binder was amazing!
I gave up watching The Sewing Bee on the second series but didn't enjoy it as much as the first series. I felt it has been 'tinkered with' too much. I must admit though I started watching the present series through utter boredom with life at the mo but am quite enjoying it although I feel that the skills and expertise have not been so great.
Guess what! There are such things as 'cancellations' in the real world as well as in Ambridge! On fb and mustardland the posters are always pointing out the number of improbable cancellations in TA in order to advance the plots.
There had been no information from the NHS about re-commencing my treatment and I had to ring my surgery to get a form from GP to have a second chest x-ray, (which he asked for after 6 weeks from first x-ray.) GP said he had written to Consultants' clinic in April. So I rang clinic yesterday morning and got a cancelled phone consultation for 3pm this afternoon!
Thank goodness as 'holding' treatment from GP runs out this weekend. So what I am hoping for is to be put back on Methotrexate (? (which apparently only consultants can prescribe) as it seemed to be working up end of March when treatment stopped.
One drawback is that I shall then change class from 'vulnerable' to 'shielded' which means isolation for several more weeks. Goodness only knows what it will mean for Jon if he has to restart working at his office though.
Incidentally my GP who actually saw me at his surgery the beginning of April believes I may have been suffering from CV-19. I ventured that idea when on the phone on Monday evening and he said " I think that is highly likely, my dear." But I need to wait ages to see if I can have an antibody test. Bit of a surprise though.
Well now off to collect photographs taken over the past two months showing the ups and downs of the state of my poor arms and legs and email to the consultant (a different one) Fingers crossed for a positive consultation!
Oh dear so sorry for long screed !
DeleteGosh, Spicy, you have to fight so hard for medical attention. Let us know, please, the outcome of today's consultation - do hope you get what you want, given it was beginning to be effective before. Life these days is so complicated though - would your son be able to work from home if you are shielded ? Then again, as instructions have altered, would shielding still be enforced in the last week of May ?
DeleteGood if you have had the virus Spicy, as hopefully you may then have immunity.
ReplyDeleteI have been watching the Repair Shop after seeing it recommended here and like it very much.
Also, someone a while back recommended The Detectorists and I really appreciated the slow moving gentle story and humour.
All the best Spicycushion
ReplyDeleteI will be thinking of up you this afternoon at 3pm when I plan to do the ironing whilst catching up on D island Discs .
Am I the only one who enjoys The A word?
The acting is superb from everybody and I really like Christopher Eccleston who I reckon is the best of the lot.
I watched Car Share when it was first on.
Loved it.
Watch very little TV, but currently gripped by Vienna Blood, BBC 2, 9pm on Wednesdays for 3 weeks ( repeated from late last year apparently). Joint Austrian/British production, set in the brutal last throes of the Austro Hungarian Empire, involving murders of prostitutes & immigrants, key characters being a detective & a young doctor of psychology, but studying Freud, so up against the old regimes in mental treatments.
ReplyDeleteI find it fascinating, so well done, but very much doubt if it would appeal to many here, given yesterday & today's comments !
Inam glad to hear that you have had some easing of your condition, Spicycushion.
ReplyDeleteI like Peter Kay's Car Share too!The story is nice and gentle and I enjoy seeing scenes that remind me of my Lancashire infancy.
Last night I found He English Game on Netflix about the early days of football, of which I had no idea; it started in public schools apparently. Again, I enjoyed the scenery, especially the Pennines !
Correction: I am glad ...
ReplyDeleteI did my DID - so, in no particular order...
ReplyDeleteThe Smiths - Reel Around The Fountain. They were the first band I ever got into in my early teenage years. They make me think, dance, laugh AND cry. I will have no truck with people that think The Smiths are depressing!
Morrissey & Siouxsie Sioux - Interlude. Their voices go together so well on this, plus it appeals to the part of me that's just an old romantic soul.
Kate Bush - Running Up That Hill. This was played as we walked out at the end of our wedding. I will never forget walking down the grand staircase of the venue & on to the lawn on the banks of Loch Lomond on the sunniest day of the year with this ringing out as we had a freezing cold glass of champagne surrounded by our nearest & dearest. Magical.
Kate Bush - And Dream Of Sheep. It reminds me of listening to the radio in the dead of night, something I have done my entire life. (Which is probably what I would miss most being on the island!)
Donna Summer - I Feel Love (Original 8 minute 12" version, 1977). Dancing to this is like entering into a meditative fugue state - like a Whirling Dervish. Perfection!
Cocteau Twins - Pearly Dewdrops' Drops (12" version). The soaring guitars, Elizabeth Fraser's ethereal voice - every time I listen to it it feels like the first time I heard it. I can picture me howling along to it at the tail end of the sunsets...
Visage - Fade To Grey (Special Extended "That's Moist" Remix). The orchestral first 1min & 50secs of this gives no real clue of what's coming next and I find the anticipation exhilarating. I love trashy "throwaway" pop music almost as much as the more "serious" choices on here!
Prince - Little Red Corvette (Dance Mix). Quite simply a musical genius in my eyes. His range of musical styles is astonishing.
Book - Umberto Eco, "Foucalt's Pendulum". It appeals to the part of me that enjoys esoteric nonsense...
Luxury - A luxurious dressing room, fully stocked with all my favourite clothes (real & imagined!) for me to dress up in every day. I may be marooned on a deserted island with no one else to see me, but I wouldn't want to turn into a savage! (Plus, you can get to be a different person each & every day!)
The one recording I would save? Such a difficult choice, but today sees me in the mood for Visage.
Ev and Owias pls see my reply top of page
ReplyDeleteLike your luxury item very much Gary!
Thank you Janice! Like Sylvie with her problems, Katy has had to cope with her psoriasis which is chronic. Lately she has been helped by the discovery that she is vitamin D deficient. She has to apply vit D ointment all over every night and the redness and flakiness can be embarrassing. In spite of all she has a cheerful and comic disposition. She has been sending TouchNote postcards to my sister in law who lives alone purporting to be from Gypsy addressed to “Dear Adopted Human Auntie...” complaining about the shortcomings of the puppy, Buddy and Barry dog, Dudley! Tass gets at least one a week and has a good laugh which has helped her through! As for facial recognition being linked to Aspergers, my nephew has that and thinking back I’m convinced Dad had it. I may have a touch of it as I hate crowds, parties and although I enjoy cities with history, I’ m always glad to leave them! Also I dislike being hugged unless someone I know very well.
DeleteIt was Katy’s birthday today and apart from her having to attend a health and safety meeting online and of course the usual tuition with students, we had a good chill out! We had a takeaway Italian delivered to the door and finished up with a tot of a chocolate mint liqueur from Hotel Chocolat, part of her birthday present. Blissful! I also had a cake delivered and that was lovely. Quite a few of the island businesses have adapted well. It has made me appreciate local produce more and will continue to buy from them when this is all over!😊🎉
DeleteThat should be barky dog, Dudley!
Gary, I have to admit that virtually everything on you DID list is new to me! But I shall definitely enjoy trying them all out and will especially enjoy the music you had at your wedding - as I imagine you coming down those stairs and onto the banks of beautiful Loch Lomond - what an exquisite memory to have. 🥰
ReplyDeleteGood luck with the telephone consultation this afternoon Spiceycushion.
ReplyDeleteDo let us know the outcome, please.
Same sentiments from here in Glasgow too Spicy.
DeleteI wish you good luck Spicycushion.
DeleteThank you Gary. I look forward to exploring your choices. I also love the Kate Bush Running Up That Hill - fab. I liked a lot of Prince too - loved the dancing on 1999.
ReplyDeleteGary, I nearly faded to grey listening to the above, enjoyed all the same, didn't know this version.
ReplyDeleteKate Bush, Prince of course, I danced to Donna Summer nearly 45 years ago, before this release.
We have waited, throughout Lockdown, and now, and only now, do we know.
ReplyDeleteGG's DID list 😀
I have to admit, I know very little, apart from The Smiths.
I know Kate Bush, but not those tracks.
Thank-you GG, for bringing me new items to listen to. 🤗💟
I am surprised, that Spicy has had to chase up her appoinments + consultations.
ReplyDeleteI hope all has gone well, and that we hear the results soon.
What I find confusing, is the difference in a person's status - shielded or vunerable, and what these labels, actually mean.
My TV viewing tonight, is veering towards BBC2.
ReplyDeleteNot for all, but we all have different tastes.
Quick extra.
ReplyDeleteLast night, there was a knock on the door and there was the owner, (whose shed started that fire..,
with flowers, chocolates and a lovely card.
There was no need, and it meant a lot.
We still have to wait for his insurance assesor (Tues next week) to talk about replacing fence and the costs, and how to sort.
PS Chocolates were Heroes (clever choice).
Tonight, my "clap for heroes", will be extra loud. This is for the Cheshire Fire Brigade crews of the 2 engines, who were just maginificent.
DeleteOne crew member so helped me, peering through the no longer fence, joking "You need a new bird feeder" as totally melted. He knew how to make me laugh, 😁
Thanks for all good wishes. Slightly more positive now but disappointed to start with. If second chest x-ray all clear (done last Monday) then can re-start methotrexate suppresses the auto immune system) which was working before being so rudely interrupted!
ReplyDeleteMore blood tests to be done next week for consultant and one from GP for diabetes!
Consultant to write prescription which Jon will have to collect tomorrow for dressings, creams, some sort of wash and something else but I couldn't write fast enough! This to avoid infection and sepsis on popped blisters.
In the meantime I'm to continue with prednisolone (steroid) until they can get me back on methotrexate. I'm not sure who is going to write out that prescription and for what dosage. After that it's isolation and keep out of the sun as much as possible!
The latest sign of the disease is my nails cracking in the nail beds so on my large toe nails, thumbs and index fingers I have a horizontal crack in my nail and dents in the other nails, which is about half way up each nail now.
It is very worrying what the devil the bullus is going to attack next!
Never mind it's the Virtual Pub Quiz tonight and tomorrow's Friday. I've always liked Fridays! 😁
Lanjan I might try to catch up with The A Word. Even on the trailer it seemed well written and acted.
Carolyn I saw the first episode of Vienna Blood. Mainly watched it to recognise the city where I frequently visited my son and family for seven years. Then missed the rest but I think I will return to it.
Gary LOVE your luxury! Why didn't I think of that ? However, sorry, but I think the Smiths are depressing. Perhaps not listened closely enough or wrong songs?
Spicy
Sorry in advance for screed again! I'd rather do one long post than six or seven short ones I'm afraid!
Gary.... agree that Morrissey and Siouxsie sound lovely together but it is one of those slit your wrists to song.
ReplyDeleteLove Kate Bush. Can’t beat a Donna summer disco dance. Cocteau twins are now on my radar to listen to.
Bought visage when it came out. Don’t think it ever dates. And one of my favourite Prince tracks.
Had a lovely afternoon lounging on swing seat listening to them all.
Spicy.
ReplyDeleteThat is a true horror story.
Why was the methotrexate discontinued, when it was helping so much?
I am so surprised at how things, are now.
I hope the MT is started again soon.
Are there community support groups where you live - who will do shopping, pick up prescriptions etc.?
Keep positive, that is so very important.
Me moaning about burnt fences, which are so very minor is so unimportant.
Take Care.. 🤗🤗🤗😍😍😍
Afternoon everyone,
ReplyDeleteSpicy I’m really sorry about your continuing health difficulties, I sincerely hope this round of medication helps. Fight the good fight and look after yourself.
I watch little current television, except for the Repair shop and G. Perry’s art club on channel 4. He is an empathetic and encouraging person and I love his pots, and cat Kevin. Sex, sensuality and nudity has been expressed artistically throughout history from the Greeks, Egyptians, to the present day. Some I like and some I don’t, however I can admire the talent of the artist. For example I admire the work of V Westwood and thought it wasn’t worth my attention until I went to an exhibition and gained insight into art through the needle.
I wouldn’t wear her clothes, but Gary might.
Gary, I will listen to your DID when I’ve a few glasses of something strong. The only one I know Is the Donna Summer, and that takes me back to the heady days of gay discos in the late seventies when it became a gay national anthem. That and Relax, which I’m about to;do with a glass of white wine.
Miriam - your flowers and card from your neighbours was extremely thoughtful, and as it should be, but often is not.
ReplyDeletePerhaps a new friendship ' over the garden wall ' !
Spicey, well you've got something today, if not all.
Understand about the nails, the Alopecia does something similar to mine, though I imagine yours is far worse.
You must be feeling ' when will this ever end '
STOIC does not do justice to you.
I do hope the methotrexate kicks in where it left off and that you don't have to start from a low level again.
Spicy, well done for getting ahead. Have you managed to plant the potatoes? Especially that the garden was out of bounds for you at some point. I think you made the right decision not to listen over the last three weeks. As a teacher I'm not surprised you like Fridays.
ReplyDeleteSpicy, sending you lots of virtual support with your continued endeavour to beat this awful health problem. Full of admiration as to how you stay strong.
ReplyDeleteGary, really loved your DID choices and burned off a few calories this afternoon dancing to Donna Summer. Considered that for my list. Of course I loved the Cocteau Twins and Kate Bush tracks, and the Smiths and Siouxsie were considered as well and should really have been on my list. I didn’t know they’d sung together - this was the only song on your list I didn’t know and I loved it, played it twice.
As for the Smiths being miserable, I think he’s got a great dark humour, but maybe that says something odd about me. Loved Fade to Grey as well. Only one I would have swapped would be the Prince - prefer Purple Rain myself. With you on the clothes choice - if I go away by car I take a ridiculous amount of clothes with me, and bring most of them back unworn, but it’s great to be able to choose.
Thanks Gary, for an uplifting afternoon.
I nearly chose "Purple Rain" Seasider! Glad you enjoyed a wee dance this afternoon...🎵🎼🎶
DeleteFinal post today (probably)
ReplyDeleteMethotrexate was stopped because it suppresses all natural immunity and as I had the terrible chest infection and pneumonia GP stopped it immediately as it was too dangerous to not have my own body fighting it as well as the antibiotics.
Promising news tonight about antibody tests. Hoping I can sneak in somewhere to get one.
Not sure what prescriptions are being written but at least one will be for dressings, for my feet and ankles. Thank goodness because they are so expensive for dressings and bandages.
We're having fajitas tonight and I managed to find Spring Onions at the beginning of the week when tackling the jungle! Planted at the beginning of 2019! First produce from the garden for over a year!👍😀
🌈Sending thoughts Spicy such a lot still going on for you and as stoic as you are you must have some “moments” hopefully at those times knowing how much we are all rooting for you helps. Take care 😍
DeleteI wish our good wishes could help you on your journey to better health Cushion. As always, hugs and hopes from Scotland... X
DeleteAnd from me too Spicy.
DeleteIf all our hopes and good wishes for you could only granted by some Genie of the Lamp, you would be hopping & skipping around your garden in perfect good health with all the bad days behind you.
You are an example of stoicism to us all and I send my love and support as always.
😍
On a very different topic, I have had a "Red Letter" day, well for me it was, which will change things dramatically.
ReplyDeleteI today, have finally been able to apply for my State Pension, which, as I am under the new scheme, is far better than anticipated. There is still at least a 5 month wait, for my 1st payment.
Simple things excite, simple minds.
That's All Folks.
Tea now cooking - a sausage in cider, with herbs, onions, garlic, pepper etc - pasta sauce. I still have a wholewheat pasta supply to utilise (yes, a secret hoarder 😣), as such a favourite of mine.
Congratulations (if that's the right word!) Miriam!
DeleteGood for you Miriam and I'm pleased to hear your neighbour was kind after the fence burn incident.
DeleteSpicycushion - continued good wishes for your health to improve.
Gary - I really enjoyed Cocteau Twins on TOGWT. I could get into them. Sorry but I don't think The Smiths are my cup of tea. Visage are nice easy listening. Thank you.
Just answering a question from earlier. Being 'vulnerable' meant that people had to be extra careful and why shops had a special time for vulnerable people alone. Being in the 'shielded' cohort means no excursions or contact with other people at all. It is stay indoors until we say it's safe for you to go out. They are the people the government were delivering food parcels to.
ReplyDeleteHaving read the government guidelines it seems that Jon will be okay to stay but it is advised we use 'shared' rooms at different times and stay at least 3 steps apart!
As Jon only goes out to shop on Sat mornings and for a run of about 30 mins three times a week he's not going out much.
I have been worried because I am not getting my annual 'bonus'of exam marking money because the government cancelled the exams. That money usually tops up my regular income (tutoring which has also gone) so there is a little in the bank for winter fuel bills, Christmas present etc.However yesterday I received an email telling me that one of the exam boards I had a contract with for this summer have 'furloughed' their examiners and will pay us 80% of what we earned last year. I feel a bit guilty about taking money and doing nothing for it but it has taken one worry away! 🙂
I know how you feel about unearned income but you're not doing nothing, you're looking after yourself. Wouldn't you qualify for winter fuel payment? I no longer buy Christmas present but I get none either! We've been through exchanging cards for the adults, before small children. Now my family draw lots and everyone buys just one thing for that person, little ones apart of course. If your son is able to stay, can he work from home?
DeleteBack to money, what always irritates me is that the interest on savings is taxed as unearned income, we've earned the money, paid tax on it, we are encouraged to save and be taxed again.
There's something to be said for Sharia Law, only in this respect, money is to be spent, shared and not used to generate more.
Re Sharia Law Basia - it's pretty clear in the Torah (Old Testament) that usury is regarded as a sin too...
DeleteBasia
DeleteYes I do get the Winter fuel payment, that's paid automatically once they start paying a monthly pension, as well as the extra £10 pension payment which was introduced yonks ago! It always surprises me when it appears in my account!
It looks a nice day for the garden so now off to apply Factor 50, find a long sleeved but lightweight blouse and fill my water bottle for a day in the garden. I also take my current book (A Bone of Contention by Susanna Gregory, read before but not remembered entirely so re-readable!) so I can sit down to get my breath back every half hour or so!
Have a good day everyone!😀
Basis, in Uk interest on savings is only taxed if over the year it mounts to £1000 or more. You’d have to have large savings to reach that especially with the interest rates as they are. Always wise to max up your cash ISA’s if so.
DeleteBasia of course!
DeleteInasmuch as I dislike anything to do with money I'm certainly wary of borrowing from a doctrine I don't know only what suits me, so on balance I'll stay with our imperfect democratic system.
ReplyDeleteThe good news -the two of us managed to position the new larger 6' X4' pond in place.
ReplyDeleteThe bad news-at least 6 of the fish have definitely died in their new quarters and the others do not look that happy!
Oh dear, that's grim after all the hard work, Lanjan. Have you tested the water ? That's usually the problem. Also, you could ring a garden centre that stock fish for advice. Some are open.
DeleteGood thinking Carolyn .
ReplyDeleteHave sampled some of your choices, Gary, & where I didn't exactly 'like' , I did admire ! I do see that Prince is brilliant, but, well, just not my taste. Donna. Summer is quite something, sort if hypnotic, as you say.
ReplyDeleteNow I wish I'd chosen your luxury item, alongside Seasider's writing materials - both ultimately more uplifting & creative than vodka & tonic....
OF hypnotic...
DeletePerhaps we can bump into one another in a socially distanced sort of way and share them out. There could be a place in the middle of the island for swaps. I’ll be missing my espresso so the odd vodka and tonic wouldn’t go amiss😉
DeleteWhat a great idea !
DeleteOh I see what's going on here....... we're about to organise a meet up on a Desert Island and share our luxuries as well as the music.
ReplyDeleteAnd pigs...........
....& fish...bet Gary's fished in Loch Lomond, so he can cobble together fishing lines, dump them in the central area, so the manually inept of us can have fried fish for supper, in exchange for, er-um oh, vodka, of course. No one else has chosen vodka, but that's OK, because, on short reflection, I'm likely to be not only the least handy of the castaways but the laziest too......why struggle to make something when someone else can do it for you much better ?
DeleteThe castaway's large desert island, on this Archerfans blogspot, will be the same one.
DeleteWe will dotted, all around the coast-line, so with a lot of effort and hikes, we can meet up....🤣🤣
I have a "silly head" on tonight...
I'll be engrossed in my jigsaw!
DeleteIf you're coming to my part of the island, please remind me to eat and/or sleep.
Sorry my luxury can't be eaten or drunk. But you're all welcome to join in with the puzzle, just don't lose any pieces in the sand!
And I'll be easy to find - Just listen out for Peer Gynt : )
What terrible high winds have been blowing today, even though it is also so sunny + warm. I had rain in the night, but not enough to help my garden.
ReplyDeleteAt least, with the gales, I haven't had to worry about fences being blown down!.
Typical, my wonderful Patty's Pride poppy, started to flower yesterday. It is now very battered and not in a good way. This happens every year - as it blooms, the weather is awful - so doesn't survive.
Miriam, have just caught up with your flaming ordeal in the garden. Events like your incident are pretty distressing but at least your neighbours have been supportive.
DeleteJust a pity it took a fire for them to be so and just as they are about to move!
DeleteI have just had a long chat with Big Sis. It is strange, as she is only 23 miles away, but is in N.Wales. The rules are still so different, as basically, neither of us can go across the border.
ReplyDeleteShe was ectastic though, as she and her hubbie, have finally been able to play golf again (in Wales), but with very strict guide-lines.
Her problem was, where was there a loo stop? She ended up in a bush, trying to avoid nettles and brambles, but it was needs must!.
Too much info. Sorry. 😣😣
Thank goodness for those bushes eh 🤣 never mind having to avoid nettles & brambles (ouch 😲)
DeleteJust been informed our short September cruise on the new Saga ship, to the fjords, has been cancelled too. Not very surprised really but had hoped September was far enough ahead to stand a chance.
ReplyDeleteNever mind, now thinking of 2020 as a write-off and planning our hopes on next year for family holidays and celebrations.
At least Saga rang to inform us in person and have offered to add £300 to our already paid deposit if we wish to book for next year. So am now looking at the brochure and think8ng where we might like to go ...... virus permitting!
Big Sis is also worrying about a holiday. This is a 14day event, on an expensive bird watching outing, in The Seychelles.
DeleteShe is still waiting for Nature -trek, to give an update. Her thoughts are about the long-haul flights, and going through airport hubs - so risky. She will be cancelling.
Me, I have been lucky, as I didn't book the holiday I wanted. This was in Africa for Jan/Feb 2021.
It might still happen, but I am just glad I haven't a booking.
I bought them as part of their Xmas present, a wonderful bird book, of what to see in The Seychelles. It sadly, almost, won't now be used.
DeleteBig Sis will almost probably cancel this trip, as her "hubbie" has a heart problem, so doesn't want to undertake, too many any undue risks.
Plus 14days isolation on return - is another factor to consider, if it becomes the norm.
I wondered to which part of Africa you were thinking of visiting,Miriam.
ReplyDeleteWe went to South Africa every January from 200o to 2012 and loved it.
I am been to S.Africa, Botswana, Nambia, Zambia, but this time I was looking at the Limpopo region...as no malaria tabs needed!
DeleteI have seen so much, including, what was my highlight, a pack of wild dogs chasing prey. They got it!
I have seen so much, that if I don't go again, I won't have missed seeing anything.
PS I loved the Okovango Delta with the low flying aircraft flight, just to get there. It only took 5 passengers and I sat in the co-pilots seat! It was a safari from the air.
DeleteHave you done the Garden Route,Miriam?
ReplyDeleteI am sure you will have been toCapetown.
We did the Saga “World in one country” starting in Jo’burg and ending up in Capetown. I danced with the Zulus and we had a safari in Kruger and many other memories. A lovely country but with the sadness of extreme poverty too.
ReplyDeleteOn my current reading list:
ReplyDeleteSkint Estate by Cash Carraway
A Short History of Europe by Simon Jenkins
All Creatures Great and Small by JH
I haven't started yet, but from what I've read this year I recommend War Doctor by David Nott, a very honest account about what motivates him, just like Do No Harm by Henry Marsh, both serialised as Book of the Week on Radio 4.
Also, Address Unknown by Kathrin Taylor, a short piece of very poignant fiction? Also dramatised on Radio 4, a classic of its kind.
Following Basia’s theme above - to follow everyone’s DIDs, how about a list of our favourite books Gary?
ReplyDeleteYou could specify children’s books, non- fiction, novels, most influential, most used reference or any other category.
Perhaps even ‘books I couldn’t finish’ or ‘books I ought to read but haven’t got round to’.
What does everyone else think?
Delete👍, books or films.
DeleteThanks for your DID list, GG, used to love the Cocteau twins, relistening. What a voice.
ReplyDeleteAvec plaisir parsley!
DeleteRabbit for supper!
ReplyDeleteBooks or films..why not both ..5 of each and let's throw in your last meal.
ReplyDeleteI would be happy with that!
DeleteGot the idea from parsley up there when she mentioned rabbit.
Delete🐰🐰
DeleteHow do you have rabbit Parsley, I cook it in rosemary , garlic olive oil, white wine and tomatoes served with polenta.
DeleteI wrote my list above having read about the faraway places some of you have visited. I cannot really say that I have travelled, with no regrets, though I've been to a number of European countries or capital cities. I have a quote by George Gissing which applies to me: "It will never benefit me to take change of air. I am a hermit wherever I go; I merely carry a desert with me." It's true, I prefer to look out of the window, rather than explore, I've always made sure that the view was good.
ReplyDeleteI don't have favourite books, but having looked at my bookshelf, I'm sure I'd stretch to five, as for last meal, I think I'd fast, it reminds me of death row - you can't take it with you!
Books/films/meals, all good.
ReplyDeleteMay I suggest that we do one topic at a time rather than having books,films and "dessert (I meant dessert and not desert !) island dishes " or last meals at the same time.?
ReplyDeleteI say that because if the books or films chosen are not familiar to many folk brief synopses will be needed.
At our Reading Group we give scores out of 5 for each of
Literary Merit
Readability
Characterisation
Plot
What do you suggest as a new topic?
DeleteHave now caught up with the final three Desert a Island Disc choices.
ReplyDeleteLoved the George Butterworth,Maryellen
So English.
Always liked Tom Lehrer .
Old Woman , loved the Mozart and the Greig.
Was it you who said that " Empty chairs and Empty tables " from Les Miserables " almost made the eight?
Almost made my eight too.
Gary ,loved the Morrissey and Siouxie song.
It sort of reminded me of the wonderful Back to Black by Amy Winehouse which I had never heard before it was introduced to me on our blog
As you know, my little Sis, lives in N.Norfolk. She is so lucky, as has access to beaches, walks etc, with no outside visitors, so far.
ReplyDeleteShe is brilliant at embroidery, along with other craft skills. I have just seen an image of a wading bird, with vegetation in the background. It is wonderful.
This is a small square piece, to be included in a project, being called "Bigger than Bayeux". This is to be, 1000 squares joined together, to produce a large piece , all done in "lockdown".
What a lovely + uplifting project, to be seen somewhere - but when or where?
It was an embroidery piece.
DeleteTo whom are you asking your question ,Miriam?
ReplyDeleteI like the idea of favourite books or films. Not too keen on last meal as it sounds a bit death sentence.
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ReplyDeleteI should have added to my comment of 4:45 pm that " Back to black" was Pars ley's choice.
I doubt I would ever have heard it but for her.
Thank you ,Parsley.
Ok for the over sensitive among us l et's call it "my favourite meal"
DeleteHow about, the 5 guests you would invite for an evening meal..
ReplyDeleteI think that this has already been suggested before.
I think it should be, those still living and not historical characters.
Just another idea.
I have just opened a box of Heroes chocs (from neighbour). What a swizz, so much packaging, and chocs just 1inch square.
ReplyDeleteA "finger of fudge", it certainly wasn't. Still less calories..🤣
I am sure they are better value than Hotel Chocolat ,Miriam.
ReplyDeleteEnjoy your gift.
I think Heroes chocs were meant as a competitor for Roses or Quality Street, ie a bite sized selection. Celebrations are a similar selection. I love the mini Mars bars in Celebrations, but would never eat a normal sized one.
ReplyDeleteMiriam - is your sisters embroidery piece part of a project by the Embroiderers Guild ?
ReplyDeleteI too have been given a little gift bag of goodies by a neighbour this evening.
Will open it now and reveal all........
Oh dear, I should be grateful, but am instead disappointed.
Earl Grey Tea, which I dislike intensely, Hot Chocolate likewise, I'm a strictly Cocoa person. However the Peppermint and Liquorice infusions are very welcome. I love them.
Oh well, the foodbank will get some goodies.
Our cottages are all higgledy piggledy and a small area of border under her window is directly in front of me and my direct neighbours doors.
Three years ago I asked her if she would object to me replanting it. It is in total shade all of the time and was overgrown with three cornered garlic, ( as I now know it to be thanks to Janice) . She was very reluctant and sceptical about what I wanted to do, but did agree with a condition that if she didn't like it she would change it.
I planted it with Bears Britches backed by Solomon's Seal with other ferns and green in between. It has now grown into a healthy and cohesive green oasis. She has recently thanked me, admitted to her original scepticism and said how I obviously had a vision and had achieved it. She now thinks it is lovely and brought me the goodies as a thank you.
Re choice for next list, I would obviously plump for books, since I suggested it but not so keen on films as we never go to the cinema ......unless films that I might have seen on television could count. Or I’d be happy to just do books, perhaps fiction & non-fiction and just leave films out.
ReplyDeleteSorry, two consecutive posts from me tonight as I’ve been occupied all day.
ReplyDeleteJust to say we were able to join in with our son’s 46th birthday today, courtesy of Zoom. An hour long session enabled us to watch him & the grandsons blow out candles on his cake, join in with a family sing song and enjoy the older grandson’s latest piano piece, a waltz from La Bohème. He is making fast progress with online piano lessons during the lockdown.
A very worrying development is our son’s concern about his job. Obviously working for an aeroplane manufacturer is not a good place to be at the moment, as orders for planes are cancelled and the future of the whole industry is under threat.
He is not sure if Airbus will keep their Dubai office open, or if there would be a position for him in Toulouse if he is sent back. He is pretty senior but the President has said all levels of staff will have to play their part in making sacrifices for the company! And if course it would seriously affect the boys education if he is ‘let go’.
Such worrying times for families everywhere, in whatever line of work or in whichever country you live.
Not knowing what the future holds for any of is very uncomfortable, to say the least.
My mum used to say when a door closes another one opens but nevertheless I hope your son, Archerfile will remain secure for the sake of his family and himself.
ReplyDeleteMy mum used to say the same Ev.
ReplyDeletePerhaps something to do with that generation, although my experience in life has been that it's true, on the whole.
And, I think that in the current situation that is going to prove to be the case for many.
Basia (12.52)
ReplyDeleteMy reading seems to have been inspired by Radio 4 or Radio Times lately, too:
Letter to Louis - Alison White. I hope they're doing OK during lockdown.
The Citadel - AJ Cronin. Having read the book, fallen in love with the characters, and wept at the tragic parts, I thought I'd listen to the radio version. ARGHH!!! Very much 'a story loosely based on the book': playing fast and loose with the plot, keeping characters alive when I was still mourning them - I listened to one episode then switched off.
First Love - Turgenev. I listened because I loved Fathers and Sons. I don't know how faithfully this one kept to the book. I'll find out when my copy arrives from eBay : )
Owias, Alison White and Louis were on Woman's Hour and they're OK.
DeleteThe Citadel - I hardly ever listen to these dramas and as you say, like films of favourite books they can be disappointing, some prefer to stay true to the original. I listened last week because it was a real life story.
I don't think you'll be disappointed with Turgenev, because it was an abridged reading (this used to be The Book at Bedtime which has moved up!) and I find it's always worth to discover the rest. I'm not a fan of the Russian literature, too sad, though life reflecting.
The Book at Bedtime hasn't disappeared, just lost its name, these days there are sometimes three instead of two each day.
DeleteArcherfile, I found the first black fly on my broad beans yesterday and took the affected parts off! Not serious infection so far but will keep a close eye. I googled it and if it continues will spray with washing up liquid solution. It’s interesting that ants farm them before feeding on them so the black fly just can’t win!
ReplyDeleteMy Dad always sprayed his plants with 'soapy' water and as all the gardening books say pinch out the tops of the plants. I suppose the plants would have to be a couple of feet tall though otherwise you wont get enough flowers/pods later.
DeleteDad also sprayed the roses for greenfly.
BTW Do you know that if you plant marigolds under tomato plants it protects the tomato plants from various 'flies?'
Also if you plant a parsley plant under a rose bush it absolutely thrives and grows enormous! Lovely fresh parsley on demand continuously!
🌹🌱😉
DeleteThe only way I have ever managed to grow parsley from seed is to take out a drill, then water it with boiling water from the kettle just before sowing the seed!
DeleteHowever, the parsley plants I grew last year managed to survive the winter and are thriving so I don’t need to sow again this year.
We’ve now had three tasty little mini cucumbers from the greenhouse and lots of tomatoes have set - just need lots of warm sun to ripen them off now! ☀️ 🍅 ☀️
Autumnleaves, last night we had a recipe from Galicia that includes chestnuts, saffron, sherry.....
ReplyDeletebut often have it with rosemary & mustard. Love rabbit.
Yesterday I took delivery of some live baby ladybirds courtesy of elder son who swears by them.
ReplyDeleteThe ones he got for us via Amazon were from Green Gardener
If you check out their website he doesn't seem to be alone in his admiration of the little creatures.
They came in a little Perspex box.
I put them into the garage for a short while apparently to de stress them and then let them loose on the roses.
Wow! I didn’t know you could BUY ladybirds! It would never have occurred to me because we have infestations of them in the garden every year. There are loads of the larvae around and, when matured into adults, they cluster on the south facing rear wall of the house in their hundreds and work their way indoors.
DeleteI wonder if this is a marketing opportunity I could exploit? 🐞🐞🐞🐞
🎬📚🎬 Favourite books/favourite films 🎬📚🎬
ReplyDeleteLet's put our names down, same as we did for Desert Island Discs, and when it's your turn you can choose EITHER books or movies as your top 5! (No mixing...) No need to rank them or choose a favourite amongst them. Agreed?
Please add your name below...
Me!
DeleteMoi !
DeleteMoi aussi s’il te plaît Gary!
DeleteAutumnleaves, I thought you were suggesting we should choose books and films and also mention the most recent meal we had eaten!! Duh! Silly me!
ReplyDeleteLet's add the favourite meal too Hilary - just trying to keep everyone happy!
Delete😀👍
DeleteI'm up for it, too. Agree it's clearer to choose one or the other. ( that doesn't mean we can't move on to what we didn't choose first time - books or films - in another DID round, when this one is completed)
DeleteYes please, but for food I'll have to think hard whether to choose carrots or potatoes, my favourite foods, well I can have both!
DeleteIf the film is one of a series say of three can you have them all or just one of them?
ReplyDeleteI think just one Ev. Nothing stopping you from having all three though! But that would leave you with only two choices left. Same with books!
DeleteMeal should be 3 courses.
Me too please.
ReplyDeleteAnd me. I've got my first three films ready now.
ReplyDeleteI’ll have a go.. although my preference would be a fantasy dinner party. Who would you invite and why.
ReplyDeletePlease put my name into the hat.
ReplyDeleteMy choice is films.
These will be the 5, that I would take to the desert island, and so this is how I will make my list. 🎥🎬💻
PS. Do I understand that I also need to add my favourite meal?
DeleteIf so, I might have to leave that bit out...
I just couldn't choose one favourite meal, so I hope that I can still be included. 🤞
DeleteMy 5 films are now chosen.
ReplyDeleteYou’ll have to wait your turn out of Gary’s hat Miriam!
DeleteI know that...😀😀
DeletePlease add my name to the list for films.
ReplyDeleteNot that much interested in food.
I think sometimes people go on too much about food. Can't stand these chefs and cooking programmes that make pretty pictures of five or six teaspoons of various items.
I'm afraid I am a "Eat to live" person not "Live to eat!"
Some of the dishes are pathetic. You couldn't live on what they serve up so it's just all for show. (Rant over!)
As long as it doesn't include animal flesh or parts of an animals body then I'll try to eat it! Trouble is so many recipes in the vegetarian 'genre' include spices and hot flavourings. I actually like the taste of vegetables!
Can’t beat a lovely vegetable quiche Spicy, specially one including Spinach & either goats cheese or Saint Agur. Yum!
DeleteTotally agree about celebrity chefs. Go into any kitchen in Italy and you'll eat like a king with the simplest ingredients. .meals are an event. No matter what else happens in life you can always sit down with family or friends and enjoy a good meal..it's one of the pleasures of life.
ReplyDeleteGary ..put me in the hat, please.
I went into a small Italian trattatoria in a village. There was no menu, just Mama saying what she was cooking
DeleteIt was Ragu with Pasta, with a red wine, a la casa. What a lovely little place, and such tasty + brilliant food and utilised my Italian speaking.
Not sure if I could do it again.
On another occaision, in another village, we followed the locals, to found where to go + eat. Good choice, as we ended up with another local authentic meal, in a trattoria.
Mama, cooks best.
I'm in the same camp as those above regarding ' foodie' programmes.
ReplyDeleteYou would have to chain me to a seat to watch such nonsense.
Like Spiceycushion I eat to live, although I do appreciate a good meal that others have cooked.
Nevertheless I do have favourite foods and meals, and some memorable occasions.
Miriam- don't overthink the subject.
I'm sure your films will be fine.
No foodie stuff...... yet !
I love some cooking programmes - but only those which have ordinary people, cooking in and not professionals.
ReplyDeleteThese were Masterchef, Great British Bake-off and Best Home Cook. These were shows, when just ordinary and everyday persons, took part in.
My choice and I loved them.
That is why I am enjoying the Great British Sewing Bee, as the cast are just normal, and everyday folk.
I loved the winner of Masterchef, this year. He just cooked basic british grub, cooked to a really high standard, but still so very authentic.
DeleteI'm glad you enjoy these programmes, Miriam but my biggest gripe is that everything is now a competition with some so called expert giving their poultry opinions (excuse the pun). Whatever happened to doing something just for the sheer joy and pleasure of doing it whether it be cooking, sewing , painting gardening etc the list is endless. Just read in the paper that they're asking for nominees for "best neighbour during lockdown "..whatever next😕😕
DeleteSeems to me that the favourite meal, following the books or films, is a matter of choice. Those that want can tell us about a delicious recipe, those that aren't so interested in that, can omit it. Is that fair ?
ReplyDeleteExactly!
DeleteThank-you, as there is no way that I could choose just one favourite dish, let alone a 3-course meal!
DeleteToo many to choose from 🤣
Yes please, Gary, I’d like to join in.
ReplyDeleteI agree with Carolyn that perhaps those who wish to could offer their other list at a later date ie films if they chose books this time around. Perfectly happy though if we don’t get around to this. We can enjoy musing on them both anyway, then decide which to “publish”.
As for the food, I can’t eat three courses at once in reality, but that won’t stop me thinking about my favourites for each. As we not cooking for a dinner party I don’t think it has to be cordon bleu.
As we ARE not...
DeleteAutumn leaves, I do so endorse your opinion of competitiveness in everything.
ReplyDeleteIt is this world that I so abhor.
As you say, nothing can be done for pleasure any longer it seems.
About fifteen years ago the Embroiderers Guild held a small exhibition at a local library and asked visitors to add names to a list if they would be interested in the EG opening a branch in that part of London.
I added my name, meetings were called and attended and in due course I was invited to become the chair of a small group of interested parties.
We organised our initial meetings, found a suitable venue, and set out with the support of the EG to become an official branch of the EG.
However it soon became evident that the EG along with many other such organisations were interested in two things. Getting as much money in various ways from the membership and organising as many competitions as possible amongst the members.
As a new group of individuals we thought carefully about this and considered our own objectives which were substantially to regularly meet other embroidery enthusiasts to share our pleasure and expertise at a level that did not require competition.
Some of our members did not feel so, but nevertheless complied with the general consensus.
Two years later factions within that group applied again to the EG for membership.
Again the EG Officials visited to engage us yet again in their vision, and after a vote the group unanimously agreed to remain independent.
I am pleased to say that group is still meeting in the original venue and is now in its 13th year of existence.
And still no competitions.
I think this illustrates that despite the competitive nature of much of life today there are still those amongst us who do value life for its pleasures and small personal achievements without needing to compete.
Autumn leaves and Mrs P, I totally agree. Some activities cannot be comparatively judged anyway.
ReplyDeleteFor a while I worked in Camphill communities with adults with learning disabilities, where the aim was for each one of us to be valued for the contribution we made without any being judged as greater or more important. It was very liberating.
Gary. Please put me in the hat.
ReplyDeleteYes, please add me to the hat Gary.
ReplyDeleteMe too, Gary!
ReplyDeleteMe too, please Gary.
ReplyDeleteI've just heard that radio 4 are copying your idea Gary and asking people to send in their desert island discs choices. Please add me to the hat.
ReplyDeleteGrrrrrrrr! I’m sick and tired of the BBC haranguing every politician they can find about what Dominic Cummings did or didn’t do. There are more important things to discuss.
ReplyDeleteJust watched one of my favourite BBC presenters, Louise Minchin, spend the best part of 20 minutes questioning Gavin Williamson about Cummings when he was there to talk about the re-opening of schools. How he managed to keep his temper I don’t know and I was shouting at the screen “ what about schools?”
It was the same yesterday with Andrew Marr interrogating Grant Shapps who wanted to talk about transport. Marr was interested in nothing but Cummings.
The BBC (and other media sources) seem to have an agenda about this man and I’m sick of hearing about it 😡
Sorry for early morning rant - should complain to the BBC really!
Archerphile. Demonic Cummings was the architect of the slogan
DeleteStay Home - Save Lives - Protect The NHS.
His behaviour has totally undermined that message. Many people have made sacrifices in order to prevent the many deaths that have already occurred. Parents with the virus unable to call on relatives for childcare. Family unable to visit relatives in care homes and be with them as they died alone.
A friend of mine has been unable to visit her daughter who has two children, at a time when she needs child care support.
Will the people as a response take risks and further spread the virus on the grounds that, the ‘unelected’ man who made the rules, can do his own thing while the rest of us can’t?
Does the PM and his advisor think we are stupid. I am horrified and angry 😡.
As for the apologist on the BBC this morning, Mr Witless, woolly Williamson, I would have made mince meat out of him had I been the interviewer. What an intellectually inept monotonous person.
Had to get that off my chest.
Is it a case of don’t do as I do, do as I tell you?
I do understand your frustration Archerphile, I think the problem is that Dominic Cummings is perceived as having a great deal of influence over Boris despite not being elected, the perfect bogey-man, and any chance to displace him will be grabbed.
DeleteI am sorry but... which means I am going to say something which might upset people!
ReplyDeleteThis is the fourth time that political comments have been made since we had the mildly unpleasant falling out (when Gary went on holiday) and we had the funny and gentle rebuke about keeping off politics.
On the other three occasions only one side of the 'argument' appeared and I am getting fed up with it, having 'bitten my tongue' so as not to cause dissension.
We manage to mention religion without causing obvious upset but seemingly not politics so let's not mention it at all. Please?
(Gary you seem to be able to remove posts but I can't, so if this is inappropriate please remove. I won't be offended 🙂)
Spicycushion, I will be a touch more blunt if I may...
ReplyDeleteNO MORE BLOODY POLITICS!
Sorry Gary, it was all my fault for commenting on Louise Minchin this morning.
DeleteMy point was NOT to raise a political issue, but an issue with BBC interviewers who harangue people (not always politicians) who come on a show to be interviewed about a particular subject and are then subjected to interrogation about some thing different.
I was NOT commenting on whether the subject of these interviews was right or wrong, or whether any politician was right or wrong, just the inability of interviewers to stick to the subject they are supposed to be discussing.
I regret that Stasia misunderstood the point of my comment which then resulted in ‘politics’ being discussed.
Incidentally I have now sent a complaint about the tactics if Mr Marr to the BBC and await a reply.
Apologies to everyone for being the cause of any upset. Perhaps I shouldn’t open my
iPad after watching something that annoys me!
Stasia+++
ReplyDeleteI am capable of deleting/censoring my own comments.
DeleteHowever I was referring to the 37000-44000+ individuals and their families who’ve died and suffered as a result of the virus.
It is human to question and show empathy when life is curtailed and we can’t grieve in the manner we are accustomed.
We should be weeping for the suffering of others.
I Can assure you Gary that is my last word.
Well said, Stasia(10.40am). Who can possibly argue with that point, which actually isn't political, not in essence, but human, in the best sense.
DeleteAt the same time, on the political debate angle, Gary is surely right, the ban having been established by precedent here & accepted by all.
Gianna DIDs - The idea is to nominate one disc which kept you through lockdown, too limited.
ReplyDeleteWe have just had a lovely weekend in the hills. The family picked me up Friday evening. We have only limited internet there which was reserved for my grandson's lessons on line Saturday morning and my granddaughter had a chat with her scout master. They were both able to meet up with one friend last week using masks. Unfortunately our favourite restaurant across the road is still closed but we saw the owner Stefania so it won't be long. It was a perfect weekend.
ReplyDeleteSounds pretty damn good to me Gianna!
DeleteHow I long to be in the hills - I can see them from my house, which doesn't make it any easier... In Scotland restrictions are to ease a tiny bit from Thursday. We are only allowed no more than 5 miles from our house, but we can stay out for longer. Baby steps. But steps nonetheless!