Miriam - June 7, 2021 at 5:10 PM I have read today, that there is a partial eclipse of the sun (only 30%) on Thursday morning, culminating at about 11.10am. No doubt that it will be a cloudy day 😆
Lanjan - June 7, 2021 at 5:11 PM Pleased to see you posting again.,Basia .
Miriam - June 7, 2021 at 6:39 PM I now have a lovely clean kitchen floor, which was not planned for tonight. The tale is:- I was so organised to time my evening meal in time for TA. I had prepared all the veg. along with the main meat portion in full readiness. I noticed that a couple of plants needed a good water. Off I trotted outside, to get a watering can. I duly filled it up but when I lifted it out of the sink, it suddenly split into two pieces. All I can do is quote the "Ancient Mariner" - water, water everywhere and ne'er a drop to drink. Why me?
Miriam - June 7, 2021 at 6:50 PM PS Meal Will be ready to enjoy whilst listening to TA, be it that I will be wearing wet trousers and sandals....
KPnuts - June 7, 2021 at 7:02 PM Oops 😲these things happen, but no major damage I hope.
Archerphile - June 7, 2021 at 9:33 PM Basia - lovely to see your name here again, you have been missed.
This may not be the place to comment but I just want to say how upset I was to hear that Louise Minchin is to leave the BBC Breakfast programme at the end of the Summer. She and Dan Walker are my favourite presenters, both are very kind and sympathetic reporters and always put their guests at ease. ( unlike one particular presenter, on at the end of the week who always seems to argue or be combative)
But I can understand her not wanting to get up at 3.30 am every day having done so for 20 years and hope they will find an equally pleasant, friendly and capable replacement.
I didn’t know she was leaving and thought only this morning how relaxed a partnership it is. Dan is a worthy successor to Bill Turnbull who had the same sort of style and yes, I hope Louise is replaced by someone of the same ilk. The latter part of the week isn’t so enjoyable! Charlie isn’t too bad although he does go on a bit!
I also saw her announce this. She will be missed but after 20 years, I can understand this. There was a feature on my local on-line news feed, which said she now wants and needs to spend more time with her family. I hope she continues with her triathalons.
My 3 windows were replaced today. I was so very surprised that it was only one fitter - but what a tall, fit bloke and very "eye candy". A job well done which only took 3 1/2 hours. Nothing is very different, as I was only upgrading some 25yr windows, which will be more energy efficient. The glass in the new bathroom window is also the same pattern. I was surprised that it was still in production and it was still my favourite, from all the possibilities I could have chosen. Another item crossed of The To Do list. Now to decide the next one, of very many. This list gets longer, rather than shorter.
Now I know why we have heard nothing from Joleen in The Bull recently. She has been moonlighting again, this time in BBC Doctors as a wronged wife/widow!
Oh Miriam to my mind very much a GG tongue in cheek remark🤣 That’s how I see it anyway. Let’s all stay relaxed about it and just continue to enjoy each other’s virtual company 🥰
Several times there has been friction on the blog while Gary was away, coincidental but he just means “calm down, dears!” this time! We’re all quite happy though hopefully with sunshine and gradually coming out of Covid restrictions! I have booked the Italian painting holiday for August 2022. This time Katy is coming too. Not a lot of painting experience but she’s going to have a go!
I heard yesterday that a dear friend has died. Mike met him and Joel, his wife in Bermuda many years ago. They came from New Orleans and were in Bermuda for a holiday as Bert had recently had a heart attack. He was a surgeon but never operated again after that. Mike was out there on a job with the RN so on his own. Joel invited him to join them at dinner one night and from then we exchanged Christmas cards although they were Jewish! We met up with them in London when they brought some of their grandsons over to celebrate their Bar Mitzvah and they invited us over to New Orleans. We stayed with them twice over the years and met up with them on a further visit to London and when we did a tour which included New Orleans. They were so kind and generous, showed us around and welcomed us. Joel died suddenly a few years ago and Bert went into a very nice home. He was well into his 90’s but a great loss as was Joel. They were very family orientated and Joel told me she was very upset when one of her daughters went to live in Dallas! Their daughter, Eve contacted me by e mail to let me know of their passing and we hope to keep in touch. Sometimes you just meet such wonderful people who turn out to be lifelong friends. Thank you, God for the love!
What a lovely post. I really hope that your Intalian painting holday, will actually happen in 2020. If I remember correctly, this will be the 1st one, after cancellations in 2020 + 2021. This is 3rd time lucky. Katy will just love the area and the italian way of life, with all it has to offer.
Yes, it will hopefully be third time lucky! She will love it. The food is so good, cooked by the host and her helper and the wine is locally produced and excellent. After dinner there is an aperitif - I usually have Limoncello! We have lunches there or in local cafes. I feel optimistic about this one but for 2021 will stay on home ground! I did think it silly to rush into going abroad. Portugal is very sad as people had to rush home if they could get a flight. It seems a bit hard as the Algarve unlike Lisbon area is relatively low on cases. However, when you think about it holidaymakers and locals could travel to Lisbon and bring it back. It is very hard all round.
Sorry to read of the loss of your friend Ev 🌹 We do not lose “an age” we lose a dear friend or loved one so whilst it is obviously devastating to lose a young person long lived ones were just as precious to us and leave a gap.
Ev I have looked at the website of the Watermill for 2022. I so want to participate in a language course, but there doesn't seem to be one. However. I was feeling brave and so I have sent a query to them, enquiring as to will they be one, plus giving my contact details. It is now a wait for a reply 🤞
I have had such amazing and brilliant holidays in so many far flung places. Now all I want is one to suit me, and just doing something, which suits me along with my interets I like, in a place I just love
I don’t think the final programme is out for 2022. I was just sent a list of art tutors. They usually do an Italian language course and note there is one for 2021 so here’s hoping you will be lucky, Miriam!
Well, surprise, I have a few concerts coming up...... not completely out of sight out of mind apparently.... developping those corns on the finger ends is challenging! 😣😏
I was only saying the same thing last week. It was closer to what a week normally would be but I began to feel overwhelmed towards the end. Off to Lyme this afternoon to meet up with an old university friend, weather looks promising.
I have been reading that BA and Ryanair have been refusing refunds where flights have not gone ahead due to restrictions. I booked with EasyJet for my flight out to Italy this year. I received an e mail saying the flight had been cancelled and I opted for a refund online. I received it within a week of making my request. I like EasyJet flights and the fact that I can book the particular seat well in advance. On my first flight to Italy we had delays on the outward and inward flight and again I received compensation from them very promptly. The pilot himself had come out of the cockpit to apologise on the flight back! I have been very happy with them and so will carry on using them. This is not an advert just a sharing of my personal experiences!😊
I have also read this morning about a website set up to support mothers. Especially over lockdown they have been hit by aggressive posts which have upset the founder so much she seriously considered shutting the whole site down. It struck me that whilst we have the right to differ in opinions and can counter those we disagree with, it should never descend into personal attacks.
Ev. I had such a lovely and friendly e-mail from the Watermill today. There is a language course available the 3rd week of October. I am very tempted to just book it, but I do need to find a few more details out first. I have no hesitation to e-mail again to find these out.
I will e-mail the Watermill again tomorrow, when I am spending time on my main computer. I have bills to pay, along with checking my bank accounts and to order my essential eye drops.
October would be a nice month to get away to warmer climes! Age is only a number, Miriam! Besides there will be a mix of ages and you will probably find a peer group! There have usually been only about a dozen on the art holidays and guess the same for other courses although they do have a bit more accommodation now so maybe two or three more. You get to know everyone and with similar interests it is easy to get on with them. Incidentally I was 70 first time round but a chap who had been to the Mill 13 times was in his eighties! B. Go on, Miriam! Of course you will fit in!
You get on well with your new younger neighbours so I' m sure you'll fit in whatever the ages of the rest of the group. When you have a common interest and are doing something together age just doesn't matter.
For some reason I woke up in the early hours of the morning (about 1.00am). As I couldn't settle down to sleep again, I then ended up with a cup of tea, sitting in the garden, just looking at all the "twinkling" stars. It was lovely and such a quiet interlude. PS I then slept well. That's me for today, as I need to start the evening watering. Also I need to use a small amount of slug pellets, which I prefer not to do. The problem is that snails are attacking my, well nurtured runner bean plants.
The next concert on the horizon involves Mathieu (early 30s, recorder), Julien (early 50's, harpsichord), & me ! (mid 60's, cello), so no worries about age!
Fridge freezer SOS. Can anyone recommend a fridge freezer with a depth of 52cm or less? Mine has just conked out and the smallest depth of appliance I can find so far is 54cm. Given the small size and awkward configuration of my kitchen that would hardly leave space to get out of the back door!
Thank you kindly, ZT. Unfortunately, depth is not generally considered to be the problem. The perception prevails that space-saving=narrower and space saved in width is then added to the depth. I still haven't found anything less than 54cm.
I thoroughly recommend ao.com. For the past few years my daughter and I have bought all our appliances from them. They have a great range of products which you can compare, à huge amount of information regarding sizes, features etc and very often next day delivery. They are my go-to ( as I think the expression is) place for household goods now.
CC - come visit down here, we have so many on Selsley Common flying up from out feet and filling the air with song. We don't seem to have any on Rodborough or Minch commons. When in Putney, we tried so hard to retain the area of grassland on Wimbledon Common where they bred but after about ten years they diminished in number to nil. But in Richmond Park they still survive.
Thank you one and all. Ev, although that one would give me a bigger kitchen by default, I'd have to shop more than once a week just for me, which simply shunts the problem elsewhere. It's also manual de-frost, which would add another chore to the list I'm already not coping with. Disappointing, because I would have liked it.
In fact, I think I'm sorted. Realising that a conked-out fridge is panic-inducing in any household, my son rang this morning with some search results to discuss. Depth is not going to be the problem I thought it was: on Mr S's insistence mine was 7ins out from the skirting-board when the recommended distance is 1-2ins. Daniel has now ordered a reasonably-priced one, with small extra charges for installation and collection, to be delivered tomorrow. It's a load off my mind, but it's also bye-bye garden furniture - just as well no one's got any!
This is very true, as I there is a massive delay with garden furniture, due to Brexit + customs and that ship which blocked the Suez canal. I know, as my new lounger ordered in April is not arriving until July. It is only coming from Italy.
Miriam, yesterday you mentioned slug pellets. As you will know the most common ones contain metaldehyde which is extremely dangerous to cats so I assume you are perhaps using those made of spent wool. Apparently coffee grounds,rosemary and seaweed are all good for getting rid of slugs. Some folk say that eggshells are but I have never found that to be the case. I use wild garlic cloves which sometimes work. Also if you put some wet cardboard onto soil and weigh it down they get underneath and can be collected. Waste of good beer putting it in traps which the cats could drink as well!
Thanks for the advice. I am always so very careful. My beans have been planted in an enormous round tub, and this was where I put the pellets. Pusscat will not go into it.
I use "pet + bird" friendly ones elsewhere, but I only have one plant which has been attacked. This is a lychnis.
Miriam your cat may not go into the tub but other cats or birds or hedgehogs might so please don't use those awful bright turquoise pellets. They are lethal and it is not worth it for a few beans. It is only plants like cosmos petunias and other young plants that have been killed by slugs in my garden If slugs are left dead on the surface birds can eat them and get poisoned.
When I lived in Cornwall and was in the WI we had a speaker, the head gardener from Cotehele. He said that birds don’t eat dead slugs so it was OK to use slug pellets. I use them sparingly in my raised bed. Our dogs don’t go up there and I don’t have a cat nor do I like having cats in the garden! Have had to clear up after them too often! My high fences and side gate down to the ground keep them out
I shoo unwanted cats out, with a childs toy of a super water gun (always primed + ready). This was a very cheap buy from B+M and works well. Cats hate water and it doesn't hurt them. My aim is good, so that the jet of water doesn't directly hit them, only landing close by. It seems to work well.
I've lately discovered that a daily light sprinkling of diluted coffee grounds round the garden after breakfast deters cats from raking in the soil as they don't like the taste on their paws when they wash afterwards. I've seen my two regular visitors sniff delicately at the newly sown wildflower meadow and literally turn their noses up at it in disgust. It was most amusing. Mrs P, I've never heard of a freecycle site. Thank you, I will investigate.
Well, Mrs P, that freecycle site is certainly an entertaining read. An amazing number of sofas(leather, in excellent condition) and cockerels, and even baby quails or pygmy goats. There's a grand piano (I wish!!), a black bedhead in Belfast and a lovely cottage suite available for collection from the Isle of Skye but unless you're in the market for a faded green plastic table and chairs from Swansea, no garden furniture - it must be first-time buyers who snapped up all the stock. Auction rooms? Not yet awhile, as it's wearing me out going a mile or so on the bus to the local shopping centre. A journey the full distance into town would necessitate lying down in a darkened room for a week! Thanks, anyway.
I googled my local town and many items were only a mile from the city centre or a few further out. I guess some of the owners must be quite desperate to be relieved of their bounty, especially in the Isle of Skye or Belfast. (Are we actually allowed to go that far for a headboard or is NI on the Government 'red list', along with the sausages?)
Freegle is worth a look too: www.ilovefreegle.org It was set up a few years ago when various UK freecycle groups didn't like the US-centric rules being applied to freecycle. Currently no garden furniture on the Southamton site, but you never know. We got a nearly new heavy duty wooden set with six chairs from freegle a few years back. I promised myself it would get folded up and stored safely in the garage every winter. Needless to say it didn't : ( Currently, what's left of the table is awaiting the attentions of a saw and allen key so it will fit in the KA to be taken to the recycling centre. A few of the chairs will struggle on until we get replacements.
We also need a new shed. Not sure if it's worth demolishing the old one or just waiting for time and weather to complete the job for us!
I put things I don't want in a box on my garden wall . Items range from jigsaws to plants -used to be those taken from cuttings but not recently. Last year I put a box out with tomato plants in small pots. I saw ,from my window ,someone take the box with all the plants! Mr LJs collection of CDs of singers (who were even before my time) went too even before the jigsaws
Don’t want to boast, but we have just had a wonderful lunch out, in a lovely pub, with people! It was our very first meal out since JANUARY 2020 and so was a very special treat.
My daughter gave me a voucher on Mother’s Day for lunch at The Watership Down Inn, not far from us and where we used to take the kids to see the rabbits in the garden. It has now turned into a very attractive Gastro-type pub and B&B. Had a delicious lunch (and a pudding!) and it was very strange sitting somewhere with other people, all chatting away. It made us almost feel normal again!
Sounds lovely Archerfile. Beats the nearest thing we've had to a lunch out since March 2020, that was a takeaway sandwich sitting at a table outdoors at Tebay Services when we visited our daughter in Edinburgh at the end of April.
Tebay services is just such a lovely place. I always stopped there, when I used to travel to Scotland. It was always a lovely break, so unlike orher motorway services.
Archerphile, that sounds delicious. Well Done. The last meal that I ate in either a restaurant or pub, was Christmas Day 2019. It was great fun, in an Indian restaurant, which was previously an old railway station.
Like OWIAS, I am also needing a new garden shed. This will only happen, after other things have been done. I will be buying a plastic shed. This sounds strange, but they are very durable, need no maintenance, only requiring a flat area to put it on, which is a problem at the moment. Also they are not as costly.
I was very surprised today when I contacted “Breast Screening” as my last appointment was Spring 2018 and this time being over 71 it was up to me to ask. However due to Covid I anticipated a long wait with many health checks being delayed but not a bit of it I was offered June 29th or 2nd July! The Unit has not long been in my town so the offer was for Andover, Winchester (or Basingstoke which I have chosen it will be in the car park of Kempshott Sainsbury’s and I know where that is 😀 yay) So with our dentist visit done it’s feet next week for Mr R, then my screening and then it must be Optician. Back to normal just trying to keep ourselves together🤣 Archerphile so pleased to hear of your very special meal today, no cooking for you tonight 👏🏻
Mine was due end of last year Miriam but it was delayed then the Dr requested one along with blood tests etc when I was having some problems - thankfully all was ok. That’s the nice part 🤞🏼getting a good result 🤗
Just an extra - which I am sure is one too many. I know that I do this far too often, which annoys many, and understand why.
I have just opened and perused my next weeks, TV/Radio guide, which is not the Radio Times. All I can see is Football, and many of my programmes I so enjoy, are now curtailed. There are only 2 Doctors visits next week, along with 2 Corrie episodes, be they be an hour long.
At last, I will be able to watch, so much I have recorded and not yet viewed. These are:-. Unforgotten the lstest full series, The Pembrokeshire Murders, Grace, plus many others.
Me too CC! I have started having to put the subtitles on for some programmes - especially ones where people speak too quickly. I’m not sure if it’s my ears or poor sound quality of our TV but it is becoming quite a problem.
I suffer with the same problem. I did have a hearing test before Covid struck. I was advised my peripheral hearing needed some help. I politely refused. I shall continue to suffer until my hearing becomes far worse, and then submit. Or...... I shall continue to refuse, allow the world to become silent, and live in bliss.
I watched A Town Like Alice last night and thoroughly enjoyed it. I had read the book many years ago but hadn’t seen the film with Virginia McKenna and Peter Finch. CC I’m struggling to find any drama on TV that appeals. I like to relax and be entertained in the evening and judging by the trailers, the latest dramas seem full of misery, pain and angst. Thank goodness the evenings are light and I can carry on gardening until I can’t see what I’m doing. Does anyone else lose trowels on a regular basis?
Yes Soz , frequently. Also my favourite little secateurs, specially made for ladies small-sized hands. I lost them for a whole year, even raking through the compost heap searching for them. Then, suddenly discovered them lurking in the tangle of clematis roots, a bit rusty but still usable!
Oh, that will be a garden gnome attack. My daughter bought Mr S a book on how to defend the house and garden against their incursions. Apparently your swimming pool is particularly vulnerable.
Two women who were involved in developing the Covid injection which have saved millions of lives have been made Dames in the Queen's Honours lists Two women who appear on dancing and cookery programmes on the television are also made Dames.
I think all aspects of their life and work are considered. For us, the public, we only see them in the light of their appearances on entertaining but mundane programmes and we don’t see their wider interests which affect individuals and society as a whole.
Hmmm ,there are many people who do good works without seeking or getting recognition . I once tried to find out a bit more about a particular Charity and learned that a well known person was a Patron of that Charity. I contacted his PA who said he wasn't really involved but did go to Dinners and some meetings!
Regarding difficulty hearing tv programmes, I find bluetooth wireless earphones are great. The quality of sound is far clearer. I watch tv on an ipad but some tvs have bluetooth now
Yes, Janice, 'How to survive a Garden Gnome Attack'. Chuck Sambuchino. (You will have guessed that it must be American from the comment about the swimming pool). As mysterious and unexplained happenings such as disappearing secateurs are known precursors of such an event, it would appear that you are at risk, so perhaps you had better read it first!
I have also noticed big differences in volume whilst viewing TV programmes. I think it depends on the original broadcast and the service provider, along with the weather, which can affect the signal quality.
PS I have lost a pair of scissors. I last used these in the garden, cutting twine to support plants onto canes/supports. I cannot find them even with the bright red handles!!
Don't worry that is probably not the dreaded gnomes but the Wee Free Men who specialise in sheep stealing and as they are only 6 inches high they need scissors for shearing. Once June, shearing time, is over I'm sure the scissors will reappear.
Well, a lovely pub lunch out with family yesterday.
Tonight we have been summoned to the pavilion at the top of next door’s garden ( which has now also acquired a large timber built, illuminated, barbeque hut/station next to it).
I shall go with a Merry smile and clenched teeth as I climb the 30 solar-illuminated steps to be wined and dined and try very hard not to say something I might regret about their watch-tower!
I’m sure the meal will lovely and we’ll all have a jolly time, but we used to do that, discretely, at the bottom of their garden with just a few candles for illumination and only few yards from our garden door.
I know I sound mean and perhaps jealous but this great, brightly lit intrusion into the privacy of our garden has really got my goat!
Think positive. You are having a night out with friends + neighbours, and you are not doing the cooking. I would so love to be able to enjoy, such a similar experience. You and Mr. A are extremely lucky, so fully embrace it. Others are still not in the same situation.
AP, Have you not sufficient replacement joints to qualify for exemption from the illuminated stairway to Heaven? I would only be prepared to manage that sort of a climb with two handrails.
Archerfile, hope your evening went well and it was worth climbing all those steps! I have tried to imagine the view from your garden of this pavilion and illuminated steps! I hope too you managed not to say anything you regret as neighbour fall outs can be very awkward. We found that after living next to our erstwhile friends in Ledbury!
Cookies are such a drag as accepting them is essential if you want to access the website and then for months you have to put up with tedious adverts for things you no longer need! The downside of technology!
Report back on last night. Yes Miriam, we were lucky to be invited for a meal, of which I only had to prepare the desserts, So sorry if complaining about it upset you. I thought you had had lunch with family fairly recently, but I may be wrong.
Sarnia, I used both my walking sticks for the steps, wouldn’t have been able to do them otherwise. Coming down was the worst bit as it was completely dark by then, no handrail but the solar lights did illuminate the risers.
It was very enlightening, sitting in the pavilion, to see exactly how much we are now overlooked. Almost every inch of our garden is visible, rather like sitting in the grandstand of a football ground with the pitch laid out before you. From having had complete privacy for 38 years, every time we now go into our garden to work or sit, walk down to the garage to get the car out or visitors arriving, coming and going through our gate can now be watched. And they had the cheek to complain that because we had slightly trimmed our boundary trees along the road which were 40 feet high, they can now see the tops of lorries going along the road!!
However, the barbeque was delicious, the wine plentiful, (the desserts very good, though I say so myself) and the chat friendly. I didn’t say anything critical or complaining, we all had a good moan about the proposed Amazon warehouse up the road, exchanged family news and departed on our usual good-neighbourly terms. So a successful evening was had with an unspoken, inward annoyance at having to look down on our now completely exposed property. It’s just going to take a lot of getting used to.
Archerfile if you really want to take a rain check in future, you could say the steps are too much for you! No handrail is a liability! They obviously only see things from their own point of view. Maybe a rapidlygrowing tree would give some privacy or a garish gazebo! Dayglo would be good to break up the pleasant green vista! Or of course, you could move!!
OWIAS - that exactly what we had between our two gardens when we moved here 38 years ago. About 30 tall Leylandii. But there is an electricity line that runs along the boundary to the rest of the cottages in the road and after 1987, Southern Electricity came and insisted on them all being cut down! 😥 They said that, in windy conditions, the trees could cause the power line to fail. So they cut them all down and put up a larch lap fence instead, to our great sadness. Still, we haven’t had so many power cuts since. In the great storm of 1987 we were without any sort of power ( we have no gas here) for two and a half weeks which was a nightmare!
What beautiful weather we are having. I know I really should be packing and washing walls and skirting boards but I’ve said sod it. Going to lounge on my swing seat and look at garden and read whilst I still can. Well, until my bloody brother and sister in law turn up once again to disturb me. Lockdown was good for some of us unsociable ones. Hopefully we will be moving on the 30th if all solicitors get their fingers out.
The dreaded black fly have struck again on the broad beans all of a sudden. Have taken out the tops and watered with soapy water but I’m not sure it works. They strike every year and last year got to the runners as well fortunately on a small scale. I’m thinking much as I love eating them, I may not do them again especially as it is difficult to find room for the tomatoes which at the moment are in pots. As you go on, you do learn!!
Ptby, exciting times and will think of you on 30th!
AP, 30 steep steps with two walking sticks - that's dreadful! Nobody I know would expect me to cope with that, and I'm afraid I wouldn't be willing to agree to it. You must find it exhausting. Is there no access from the front of the houses?
Sarnia, To explain the geography I’d have to draw you a map! Our semi-detached cottages are built endways on to the road, as was the custom here for coppice workers cottages in the 1800s So both our gardens run parallel with the road, our is nearest to the road and theirs is the one away from the road. Our garden is on the flat, level with the road. Theirs slopes quite steeply upwards along its length because of a long embankment to another road. So, having built their pavilion at the top of the slope, halfway along the length, it cannot but help looking down on us There is no access to it from their front garden but we have a gate between our 2 back gardens as they have a right of access across our property to get to the road. It’s very difficult to describe I’m afraid.
Archerphile the neighbours garden all sounds a bit Hollywood to me. The previous lower key candlelit 🕯🍷evenings sounded more intimate and relaxing to me. Unless of course they were Mrs Bouquet type candlelit suppers 🤣🤣🤣
I was sitting in the garden, quietly reading a book but I knew England had scored, due to loud cheers from around!
To add. I bought a pair of glasses with sunglass lenses, done to my prescription for reading. I was not sure if these would work - but there are brilliant. It was an experiment, so I only bought cheap frames. These will be up-graded to proper sunglasses frames, in the future.
Lanjan thinks cookies are a bother. Me? I think I'll go and eat another Three or four, Or maybe more. About them you won't hear me grouse. Except when crumbs clog up my mouse.
Thank you, AP, now I understand. It all sounds very OTT to me as well. I think when they erect the pearly gates at the top of the stairway to heaven will be the time to bow out!
18 months of self-isolation, wrapped up in cotton wool, no contact with anyone except the Covid tester and vaccination staff. 48 hours after first visit to the pub with daughter and next door’s barbecue and what happens?
Wake in the night with a fearsome sore throat and hugely swollen neck, hardly able to breath let alone sleep, and now cannot swallow, talk or open mouth very far. Try to look down throat and see an abcess forming. Lovely! Managed to get a GP appt this afternoon, hopefully to get some antibiotics.
But seriously, this has made me think. Does having been isolated from most of humanity for so long make you more likely to pick up infections. Has my natural immunity system been compromised? Of course it all might be a great coincidence, but it does seem strange. It might be worth the scientists investigating.
Although I will add could it the result of literally joining back into society? For me it has been my jaw (I believe it is called TMJ) but it is coming in waves and is very painful in the ear and jaw and throat on one side unconsciously clenching jaw especially in the daytime but come evening time it mostly disappears. I have recently seen my dentist so if it continues will check with her again but it does appear to be now that life has come partially out of lockdown that even looked forward to happenings can produce it. Also getting tired more quickly but then the weather is hot. I wish you well and hope for a positive result for you later this afternoon 🤔
PS have also spoken with Pharmacist and know which painkillers I can use alongside a particular tablet that I take as and when needed I manage with the least I can.
Miriam respect to you 👏🏻 we are fortunate to have superb Pharmacists at our very local chemist attached to Mr R Health Centre so no need to go into town.
Archerphile - I hope you feel better soon and have plenty of medicine to recover. Lanjan and others - I have barely listened to the episodes as they are drama filled or ridiculously slapstick in their humour. Maybe one or two touching or emotional moments. Last weekend I went to visit my brother in Portland. 183 miles on Friday then again on Sunday. He was so pleased to see me and cried! I was very calm because he was my little brother so I,for once, didn't cry. Once more having to have tests because of other scare of spots inside. We have to wait and see. Had breakfast up at Jailhouse Cafe in the prison there. Wonderful view of six ships anchored in the harbour as we looked down from the benches. We also visited on Saturday night to see them lit up but stayed outside the prison walls! Quite tired and need to get gardening but too hot! Now cricket is no longer on (!!!) I will watch football!
Spicy - I'm so glad you managed to see your little, very tall brother at last and retained your composure for his sake. Do rest after such an arduous journey. As for the Archers, life is stranger than fiction.
Good wishes for diagnosis, treatment and recovery to Archerphile. My thoughts coincide with Basia...... too much sterility !
Spiceycushion- I sincerely wish your tests do not pick up yet more problems. And so very pleased you have managed to see your brother. I remember that it was possibly to say goodbye. I am sure you are very relieved that you have managed to do so at last.
No idle chit-chat from me tonight. All I want to say is:- I wish You All Well.
To add I have also noticed others in my family, picking up "bugs". The Little Doll came back from nursery last week, with tonsilitis which she has passed onto her Mum. Grand nephew, the 7 year old is back going to Beavers and football training. He also was ill last week, sore throat, snotty nose etc..
I am of the opinion, as already mentioned, that our lives over the last year + more, have become too sterile.
I personally think, for very many various reasons too numerous + boring to post, that the June 21st cease of rules should go ahead as it was originally planned. Controversial - I agree, but with the proviso of mandatory wearing of masks in indoor places.
Then the protesters will no doubt say not a complete unlocking 🙄 Either way I shall still wear a mask and try to keep a distance and deffo still use gel!
What I wanted to say, before I totally digressed, is that:- BBC 2 on Thursday at 8.00pm is continuing the series of the programmes, showing the developement of RHS Bridgewater in Manchester. It will intererst some, but not all.
Update on throat for these who kindly showed an interest:
Quite a dramatic afternoon. Went to see GP ( a new, rather gorgeous young one,) Took one look in my mouth which, I could only just open, and said - that needs lancing in hospital straight away or it’s going to completely block your windpipe! Our local hosp is Basingstoke but he said their ENT unit wouldn’t be open so I’d have to go to Frimley Park in Surrey which is miles away. Had to sit in waiting room while he phoned them to let them know I was coming. Nail biting time. Came back & said B’stoke could see me after all but I had to get there very quickly before they went home. Dear Mr A drove like the wind, breaking all the speed limits, and the ENT staff were there waiting for me at the door, which was lovely. Long story short - had camera put up my nose & down my throat (yuk) larynx & pharynx very swollen but consultant agreed to try antibiotic and steroids before operating. But he wanted me to go into hospital overnight to have them intravenously. I pleaded to go home with the tablets and they will ring me tomorrow to ensure the swelling is subsiding
Now Spicy, I’so glad you saw little brother and I do hope he goes on well. The views from Portland can be spectacular, especially with all those cruise ships anchored offshore. Keep well Spicy and everyone and thanks for your supportive concern. It is much appreciated.
My goodness AP what a to do it’s incredible how quickly that came on thank goodness you were seen so soon by the Dr or you would have to have gone straight to A&E that’s for sure. We do hope you feel the benefit of the meds as quickly as possible. Get an early night. 🥰
Best wishes, Archerfile. It must be very uncomfortable and hope the tablets improve things overnight. Spicy, lovely you could see your brother at last!
Good grief, Archerphile. What an afternoon. Hope the tablets kick in really quickly. 🤞 for you. A good nights sleep is needed to get you on the road to recovery. Glad you got out and about Spicy. Take it easy, don’t go mad with the gardening.
Thinking about you Archerphile. As Ptb Y says I hope the tablets have kicked in Spicycushion take it easy before your son's "Big Day" Stop making the sandwiches for the Cubs. Let their mums do that..
AP, as someone who has been cursed with throat problems in the past, I hope beyond hope that things are much better today. And Spicy, gently does it! But I'm sure your doing all the right things to help with your recovery.
I've also been thinking about people being more/less susceptible to illness after our long periods of not being around others. I wonder too if the cases of infections such as MRSA have dropped dramatically both in and out of hospitals due to everyone washing their hands much more frequently.
For those vaguely interested, my little cycling holiday to Dumfries & Galloway was fantastic. The weather was very kind for someone pootling around on a bike - not too hot, tiny spot of rain and the wind was usually going the way I wanted it too! Sights were seen, friends were visited and exercise was had...
I was wondering the same thing about infections, especially gastroenteritis. My youngest grandchild was born last August so had very little contact with other people to build up her immunity. She started nursery at the beginning of May and has already had two upper respiratory infections and has a permanent runny nose.
We lived in Hong Kong from Katy being 3 months old to 2 1/2. Over that time she had one tummy upset, no colds etc. Then when we came back to UK, she started at nursery and it was one cold after another ending in glue ear. She was constantly on antibiotics but when I queried the long term effects of these we were given mucodyne which thins down the mucous which causes glue ear. It worked for her but subsequently was taken off the list of prescription drugs as it was said it wasn’t proven! Have gone off the point which is that as she hadn’t been exposed to bugs here she was particularly susceptible to infection which could be the case for us after the Covid restrictions. Maybe it is wise to continue to wear masks in certain situations and not get too close to people outside our usual group.
Quick update: had 2 lots antibiotics (they are extra strong & NOT penicillin which I’m allergic to) and steroids. Slept much better, could breathe better, uvula now dangling down nicely and not deviated thus almost blocking my windpipe, swelling has gone down a bit. Hospital consultant did ring me this morning to see how I was, I was impressed! If any more probs they have booked me in for a CT Scan but hope it won’t be needed
Now Gary, of course we are interested in you cycling trip, been waiting for the news. It sounded perfect and I’m so glad you got the break you probably needed.
Hope everyone else esp. Spicy and Lady R are doing well and are not too encumbered by your medical problems. At least the elongation of the lockdown won’t affect the wedding too much Spicy, and I hope it goes ahead with great success.
Glad you're being so carefully monitored, AP. Gary, your bike ride sounds wonderful and all the meeting up good for the soul. Just heard that my son is coming Sunday-Wednesday, without the family this time. That's the second time in a month and things are very slowly beginning to get done. Even played a service on Sunday with a bit of quiet socialising afterwards without being exhausted on Monday. My garden is now a bit too much of a holiday zone in this lovely weather, so that after a leisurely breakfast of coffee and croissants on the deck, with (at last!) its forest green patio set (which Daniel calls the 'cafe') I find I expect the staff to do the clearing away and washing up, but unfortunately they seem to have gone off-duty!
Archerphile that sounds an awful experience. That GP was brilliant, as were the ENT staff, who were prepared to wait for you to arrive. That is just wonderful care.
I was often late leaving work, due to receiving a 'phone call from a GP, asking if I would wait for a short while. This I always did, as it was nearly always for an urgent prescription, usually for antibiotics. I was pleased to do this, as I was a part of the comnunity NHS service. It was sometimes slightly annoying...when it happened at 6.30pm and I still had a 25 min drive home...
Let's not get ahead of ourselves, AP. Just Carpe Diem and all that, but thanks anyway for the kind thought. Too soon for the organ-playing though - still too much excitement for one week. I can just about manage two services a month if I stay on piano. Flute will also have to wait awhile, as my fingers have got too stiff and my lip muscles have gone flabby so I've lost the fine control of my embouchure. All in good time!
My younger son is travelling round Scotland for the next few days too Gary . He bases himself in Glasgow and Edinburgh and then takes himself off by train to various places and goes for walks . Today he has walked about 8 miles by the side of the Tweed to Melrose and to the Leaderfoot Viaduct. Tomorrow to Inverness . Nowhere is better at this time of year than Scotland A fortnight's rail trip round Scotland is still on my bucket list. I will not be doing any walking I love the Dumfries and Galloway area.. You lucky beggar!
So much for my comments yesterday, about that I didn't think the delay with the rules was necessary.
This is now the opposite.
On looking at my news feed this morning, I found my area is now one of those highlited for extra gov. support. This is due to the rapid rise of cases in the last week. To think 3 weeks ago, my area was classed as covid surpressed. So this is no uneccesary travelling out of my area, surge testing and pushing vaccines forward.
I have a theory, be it right or wrong. Chester Races has opened up with a limited no. of spectators, supposedly socially distanced. A few hotels, bars + restaurants are now closed. Is this a coincidence?
Saturday 29th May was a races day with spectators. The figures used was 7th-12th ie last week. It seems too coicindental not to be part of the new problem.
I was penciled in for a "sleep over" this weekend. This was looking after the kids, whilst Mum + Dad had a date night away, just the two of them. This is now cancelled, as is their overnight booked hotel room. Not sure yet, if they will get a refund for the deposit paid.
How disappointing, Miriam. I have found people are relaxing just a little bit too much. At little Tesco there is a stop and go light before you go in which certainly limits the number in there but people are quite careless about being near to others. Masks are worn though but Katy tells me she is the only one wearing a mask at school as the government has said it isn’t essential. Bear in mind under 18’s are not vaccinated! I‘m not paranoid but still think we should be careful
I am going back to home delivery of my shopping from Sainsburys. Although they still have anyI- Covid measures in place very few people use the provided their hands on entering (especially men, I notice) and social distancing is practically nil.
I think I might well have picked up my throat virus there last Thursday. I had become lax about wearing neoprene gloves when shopping and just relied on gel. But when you think how many shoppers pick up goods, put them back on shelves, handle loose fruit and veg. to say nothing of leaning over you to get goods, It’s almost inevitable to pick something nasty up and not necessarily Covid.
I understand your point AP and agree - although some people may not gel up because they have done so before leaving their car (which I have done but always do it again because other people will not know this) just as strange are people who do not use the gel when leaving because they have been touching many items and surfaces. Alarmingly The public often straight past the gel stands when entering and leaving hospitals 😱 Do hope each day will bring you relief from your very nasty throat infection so frightening for you and so sudden…
On a brighter note we had a visit yesterday from my IOW sister and brother in law whom we have not seen since Feb 2020! I can’t tell you how wonderful that was - such a big hug 🤗 and lots of face to face chat. I felt alive again if that makes sense. My other sister and her husband in Cambs because of circumstances both ends we have not been able to see for 6yrs now but we chat regularly and it is just an accepted situation.
Yes, that makes sense to me, Lady R. Constant lockdown and isolation has a strange, cumulative effect of distancing you from any other kind of reality and I for one felt my sense of identity gradually diminishing to the point at which I hardly existed. I'm now going on the bus once a week for my Sainsbury's shop and the enormity of it is exhausting. Now it's proper summer weather and visitors can come to the garden I'm better at being with people, but still only two or three at a time. Sunday morning services with thirty people (fancy having to book to go to church!) are overwhelming so I'm glad there are still only two a month. But yes, I'm beginning to feel more alive and have more energy to tackle the domestic chaos, one small piece at a time.
I have become almost claustrophobic and don’t want to go out much at all We just had to make the final payment for our short cruise in September (delayed from last year) and I’m not really looking forward to it - especially the travelling to the port & all the border force palaver. That’s if it still goes ahead, of course and Norway will let us disembark by by then!
You will be fine. It is still 3 montha away and by then, all will be as normal, as we will ever be. Think positive and look forward to it. Things will look different, once you have overcome this bug.
I checked my local situation again today. The advice, but not rules set in stone, are;- Do not travel outside of your local area unless absolutely necessary When meeting up with family + friends in a group of 6, do so outside rather than inside. Continue to work from home. There is no ban on going to the pub or similar, but the advice is to continue and maintain, strict social 2m distancing, masks etc.
I was in the supermarket this morning, and it was very different from the last 2 weeks visits, in that all seemed far more cautious. Oh well, it is what it is so if all follow the guidelines, then the situation will revert back, to where it was.
On a more cheerful note... I "pruned" my shrubs this morning, which is giving them a short back + sides using the hedge-trimmer. They are well hacked back, but will soon grow again. That was the easy part, it was the clearing all the debris up, which took the time. Thank goodness it is garden bin emptying on Friday.
Very humid + overcast now - but no rain nor storms forecast for me. I would love an overnight downpour.
I have a fit of ironing from time to time. Then the clothes sit forlornly on the spare bed until my cherubs finally manage the difficult task of putting them away.
Yes, I have some ironing to do but it is still so hot! The thunderstorm has not arrived yet. I took the boys out this morning early for me leaving at 9! Had breakfast when I came back. We went down to the creek and it was lovely just sitting on the bench down there with just a bit of breeze from the sea. I met a lady on holiday here and she was saying she had come over as a hold but this is her first adult visit and she finds it a beautiful place. Who needs to go abroad when the weather is like this?!
I had. a newsletter from the Donkey Sanctuary. Katy adopted one called Daisy on my behalf for my birthday. Daisy is 31 and she is in the field with others designated as the diet field for fat donkeys! We have so much in common! Katy chose her as my Mum was called Daisy. She hated the name but it is pretty and becoming popular again now.
I know that I already posted too much, but I need some help. Gardeners, and all. I have just seen a strange insect on a rose, which I have never seen before, cannot identify nor find on the tinternet. It looked like a flying ant, as to the head + wings, but the body was quite large in comparison and bright yellow. I have no idea. Can any-one help? Also is it good bug or a bad one?
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ReplyDeleteMiriam - June 7, 2021 at 5:10 PM
I have read today, that there is a partial eclipse of the sun (only 30%) on Thursday morning, culminating at about 11.10am.
No doubt that it will be a cloudy day 😆
Lanjan - June 7, 2021 at 5:11 PM
Pleased to see you posting again.,Basia .
Miriam - June 7, 2021 at 6:39 PM
I now have a lovely clean kitchen floor, which was not planned for tonight. The tale is:-
I was so organised to time my evening meal in time for TA.
I had prepared all the veg. along with the main meat portion in full readiness. I noticed that a couple of plants needed a good water.
Off I trotted outside, to get a watering can. I duly filled it up but when I lifted it out of the sink, it suddenly split into two pieces.
All I can do is quote the "Ancient Mariner" - water, water everywhere and ne'er a drop to drink.
Why me?
Miriam - June 7, 2021 at 6:50 PM
PS Meal Will be ready to enjoy whilst listening to TA, be it that I will be wearing wet trousers and sandals....
KPnuts - June 7, 2021 at 7:02 PM
Oops 😲these things happen, but no major damage I hope.
Archerphile - June 7, 2021 at 9:33 PM
Basia - lovely to see your name here again, you have been missed.
Be back on Saturday...
ReplyDeleteAnd for the love of God - please play nice whilst I'm away!!!
😄!
Delete😂 Now would we do anything else!? Have a nice time.
DeleteThis may not be the place to comment but I just want to say how upset I was to hear that Louise Minchin is to leave the BBC Breakfast programme at the end of the Summer.
ReplyDeleteShe and Dan Walker are my favourite presenters, both are very kind and sympathetic reporters and always put their guests at ease. ( unlike one particular presenter, on at the end of the week who always seems to argue or be combative)
But I can understand her not wanting to get up at 3.30 am every day having done so for 20 years and hope they will find an equally pleasant, friendly and capable replacement.
I didn’t know she was leaving and thought only this morning how relaxed a partnership it is. Dan is a worthy successor to Bill Turnbull who had the same sort of style and yes, I hope Louise is replaced by someone of the same ilk. The latter part of the week isn’t so enjoyable! Charlie isn’t too bad although he does go on a bit!
DeleteI also saw her announce this. She will be missed but after 20 years, I can understand this. There was a feature on my local on-line news feed, which said she now wants and needs to spend more time with her family. I hope she continues with her triathalons.
DeleteMy 3 windows were replaced today. I was so very surprised that it was only one fitter - but what a tall, fit bloke and very "eye candy". A job well done which only took 3 1/2 hours. Nothing is very different, as I was only upgrading some 25yr windows, which will be more energy efficient. The glass in the new bathroom window is also the same pattern. I was surprised that it was still in production and it was still my favourite, from all the possibilities I could have chosen.
ReplyDeleteAnother item crossed of The To Do list. Now to decide the next one, of very many. This list gets longer, rather than shorter.
What a lovely weather day for you to have your window replacement job done Miriam 🤗
DeleteNow I know why we have heard nothing from Joleen in The Bull recently.
ReplyDeleteShe has been moonlighting again, this time in BBC Doctors as a wronged wife/widow!
I missed that, and there's me who watches Doctors + listens to TA.
DeleteIf she was in today, Tues episode, then I will see it tomorrow morning.
I loved GG's comment saying "Play Nicely".
ReplyDeleteI so hope this was meant as purely a, tongue in cheek one.
If I am wrong, then I just don't understand it.
If it is me again, please explain as to why...😣
DeleteOh Miriam to my mind very much a GG tongue in cheek remark🤣 That’s how I see it anyway. Let’s all stay relaxed about it and just continue to enjoy each other’s virtual company 🥰
DeleteBy the way what’s on the menu tonight 😋
Several times there has been friction on the blog while Gary was away, coincidental but he just means “calm down, dears!” this time! We’re all quite happy though hopefully with sunshine and gradually coming out of Covid restrictions! I have booked the Italian painting holiday for August 2022. This time Katy is coming too. Not a lot of painting experience but she’s going to have a go!
ReplyDeleteI heard yesterday that a dear friend has died. Mike met him and Joel, his wife in Bermuda many years ago. They came from New Orleans and were in Bermuda for a holiday as Bert had recently had a heart attack. He was a surgeon but never operated again after that. Mike was out there on a job with the RN so on his own. Joel invited him to join them at dinner one night and from then we exchanged Christmas cards although they were Jewish! We met up with them in London when they brought some of their grandsons over to celebrate their Bar Mitzvah and they invited us over to New Orleans. We stayed with them twice over the years and met up with them on a further visit to London and when we did a tour which included New Orleans. They were so kind and generous, showed us around and welcomed us. Joel died suddenly a few years ago and Bert went into a very nice home. He was well into his 90’s but a great loss as was Joel. They were very family orientated and Joel told me she was very upset when one of her daughters went to live in Dallas! Their daughter, Eve contacted me by e mail to let me know of their passing and we hope to keep in touch. Sometimes you just meet such wonderful people who turn out to be lifelong friends. Thank you, God for the love!
What a lovely post.
DeleteI really hope that your Intalian painting holday, will actually happen in 2020. If I remember correctly, this will be the 1st one, after cancellations in 2020 + 2021. This is 3rd time lucky.
Katy will just love the area and the italian way of life, with all it has to offer.
2022 obviously.
DeleteSorry to hear your sad news Ev, but inevitable these days I suppose.
DeleteYes, it will hopefully be third time lucky! She will love it. The food is so good, cooked by the host and her helper and the wine is locally produced and excellent. After dinner there is an aperitif - I usually have Limoncello! We have lunches there or in local cafes. I feel optimistic about this one but for 2021 will stay on home ground! I did think it silly to rush into going abroad. Portugal is very sad as people had to rush home if they could get a flight. It seems a bit hard as the Algarve unlike Lisbon area is relatively low on cases. However, when you think about it holidaymakers and locals could travel to Lisbon and bring it back. It is very hard all round.
ReplyDeleteSorry to read of the loss of your friend Ev 🌹
DeleteWe do not lose “an age” we lose a dear friend or loved one so whilst it is obviously devastating to lose a young person long lived ones were just as precious to us and leave a gap.
Ev I have looked at the website of the Watermill for 2022. I so want to participate in a language course, but there doesn't seem to be one.
ReplyDeleteHowever. I was feeling brave and so I have sent a query to them, enquiring as to will they be one, plus giving my contact details.
It is now a wait for a reply 🤞
I have had such amazing and brilliant holidays in so many far flung places.
DeleteNow all I want is one to suit me, and just doing something,
which suits me along with my interets I like, in a place I just love
I don’t think the final programme is out for 2022. I was just sent a list of art tutors. They usually do an Italian language course and note there is one for 2021 so here’s hoping you will be lucky, Miriam!
Delete🤞Miriam
DeleteWe're hoping for a few days away late August/early September, perhaps île d'Oleron.
DeleteWe have friends who have a maison secondaire.. 😊
Well, surprise, I have a few concerts coming up......
ReplyDeletenot completely out of sight out of mind apparently....
developping those corns on the finger ends is challenging! 😣😏
Yes, I'll be up to 2/4 services this month. The practising wears me out - what used to be called 'normal life' is now Exhausting, isn't it!
ReplyDeleteI was only saying the same thing last week. It was closer to what a week normally would be but I began to feel overwhelmed towards the end.
DeleteOff to Lyme this afternoon to meet up with an old university friend, weather looks promising.
I have been reading that BA and Ryanair have been refusing refunds where flights have not gone ahead due to restrictions. I booked with EasyJet for my flight out to Italy this year. I received an e mail saying the flight had been cancelled and I opted for a refund online. I received it within a week of making my request. I like EasyJet flights and the fact that I can book the particular seat well in advance. On my first flight to Italy we had delays on the outward and inward flight and again I received compensation from them very promptly. The pilot himself had come out of the cockpit to apologise on the flight back! I have been very happy with them and so will carry on using them. This is not an advert just a sharing of my personal experiences!😊
ReplyDeleteThe son of a friend is a pilot for Easyjet, it's been a difficult time for him since last March but he still has a job thank goodness.
DeleteI have also read this morning about a website set up to support mothers. Especially over lockdown they have been hit by aggressive posts which have upset the founder so much she seriously considered shutting the whole site down. It struck me that whilst we have the right to differ in opinions and can counter those we disagree with, it should never descend into personal attacks.
ReplyDeleteI have also seen that
Deleteitem and so agree with your thoughts.
Ev.
ReplyDeleteI had such a lovely and friendly e-mail from the Watermill today.
There is a language course available the 3rd week of October.
I am very tempted to just book it, but I do need to find a few more details out first. I have no hesitation to e-mail again to find these out.
This is for 2022.
DeleteI will e-mail the Watermill again tomorrow, when I am spending time on my main computer. I have bills to pay, along with checking my bank accounts and to order my essential eye drops.
DeleteI have just realised, that when this potential language holiday happens in Oct 2022, I will be 68yrs old (gulp).
DeleteI doubt that I will fit in.
October would be a nice month to get away to warmer climes! Age is only a number, Miriam! Besides there will be a mix of ages and you will probably find a peer group! There have usually been only about a dozen on the art holidays and guess the same for other courses although they do have a bit more accommodation now so maybe two or three more. You get to know everyone and with similar interests it is easy to get on with them. Incidentally I was 70 first time round but a chap who had been to the Mill 13 times was in his eighties! B. Go on, Miriam! Of course you will fit in!
DeleteYou get on well with your new younger neighbours so I' m sure you'll fit in whatever the ages of the rest of the group. When you have a common interest and are doing something together age just doesn't matter.
DeleteFor some reason I woke up in the early hours of the morning (about 1.00am). As I couldn't settle down to sleep again, I then ended up with a cup of tea, sitting in the garden, just looking at all the "twinkling" stars. It was lovely and such a quiet interlude. PS I then slept well.
ReplyDeleteThat's me for today, as I need to start the evening watering.
Also I need to use a small amount of slug pellets, which I prefer not to do. The problem is that snails are attacking my, well nurtured runner bean plants.
The next concert on the horizon involves Mathieu (early 30s, recorder), Julien (early 50's, harpsichord), & me ! (mid 60's, cello),
ReplyDeleteso no worries about age!
Fridge freezer SOS. Can anyone recommend a fridge freezer with a depth of 52cm or less? Mine has just conked out and the smallest depth of appliance I can find so far is 54cm. Given the small size and awkward configuration of my kitchen that would hardly leave space to get out of the back door!
ReplyDeleteSarnia,
DeleteI found this website - you may have already seen it. I haven't looked at the details of any of the appliances.
Good luck with your search.
It helps if I attach the link 🙄😂
Deletehttps://www.mysmallspace.co.uk/kitchen-dining/kitchen-appliances/fridges/space-saving-fridges/
Thank you kindly, ZT. Unfortunately, depth is not generally considered to be the problem. The perception prevails that space-saving=narrower and space saved in width is then added to the depth. I still haven't found anything less than 54cm.
ReplyDeleteHad a quick look. On so.com there is a fridgemaster 51 cm deep
DeleteThat’s ao.com. Autocorrected!
DeleteI thoroughly recommend ao.com. For the past few years my daughter and I have bought all our appliances from them. They have a great range of products which you can compare, à huge amount of information regarding sizes, features etc and very often next day delivery. They are my go-to ( as I think the expression is) place for household goods now.
DeleteTreat of the day for us was hearing a skylark singing on our walk at Teggs Nose this morning.
ReplyDeleteCC - come visit down here, we have so many on Selsley Common flying up from out feet and filling the air with song.
DeleteWe don't seem to have any on Rodborough or Minch commons.
When in Putney, we tried so hard to retain the area of grassland on Wimbledon Common where they bred but after about ten years they diminished in number to nil.
But in Richmond Park they still survive.
Thank you one and all. Ev, although that one would give me a bigger kitchen by default, I'd have to shop more than once a week just for me, which simply shunts the problem elsewhere. It's also manual de-frost, which would add another chore to the list I'm already not coping with. Disappointing, because I would have liked it.
ReplyDeleteIn fact, I think I'm sorted. Realising that a conked-out fridge is panic-inducing in any household, my son rang this morning with some search results to discuss. Depth is not going to be the problem I thought it was: on Mr S's insistence mine was 7ins out from the skirting-board when the recommended distance is 1-2ins. Daniel has now ordered a reasonably-priced one, with small extra charges for installation and collection, to be delivered tomorrow. It's a load off my mind, but it's also bye-bye garden furniture - just as well no one's got any!
Sarnia ?
DeleteDo you ever look on your local freecycle site ?
So many people buying new garden furniture, you might find something nice locally being given away.
This is very true, as I there is a massive delay with garden furniture, due to Brexit + customs and that ship which blocked the Suez canal. I know, as my new lounger ordered in April is not arriving until July. It is only coming from Italy.
DeleteMiriam, yesterday you mentioned slug pellets.
ReplyDeleteAs you will know the most common ones contain metaldehyde which is extremely dangerous to cats so I assume you are perhaps using those made of spent wool.
Apparently coffee grounds,rosemary and seaweed are all good for getting rid of slugs.
Some folk say that eggshells are but I have never found that to be the case.
I use wild garlic cloves which sometimes work.
Also if you put some wet cardboard onto soil and weigh it down they get underneath and can be collected.
Waste of good beer putting it in traps which the cats could drink as well!
Thanks for the advice. I am always so very careful. My beans have been planted in an enormous round tub, and this was where I put the pellets. Pusscat will not go into it.
DeleteI use "pet + bird" friendly ones elsewhere, but I only have one plant which has been attacked. This is a lychnis.
Miriam your cat may not go into the tub but other cats or birds or hedgehogs might so please don't use those awful bright turquoise pellets.
DeleteThey are lethal and it is not worth it for a few beans.
It is only plants like cosmos petunias and other young plants that have been killed by slugs in my garden
If slugs are left dead on the surface birds can eat them and get poisoned.
What a valient point.
DeleteThank-you.
meant valid..
DeleteOur neighbour puts down segments of orange and slugs seem to prefer them to plants.
DeleteWhen I lived in Cornwall and was in the WI we had a speaker, the head gardener from Cotehele. He said that birds don’t eat dead slugs so it was OK to use slug pellets. I use them sparingly in my raised bed. Our dogs don’t go up there and I don’t have a cat nor do I like having cats in the garden! Have had to clear up after them too often! My high fences and side gate down to the ground keep them out
ReplyDeleteI shoo unwanted cats out, with a childs toy of a super water gun (always primed + ready).
DeleteThis was a very cheap buy from B+M and works well. Cats hate water and it doesn't hurt them. My aim is good, so that the jet of water doesn't directly hit them, only landing close by.
It seems to work well.
I've lately discovered that a daily light sprinkling of diluted coffee grounds round the garden after breakfast deters cats from raking in the soil as they don't like the taste on their paws when they wash afterwards. I've seen my two regular visitors sniff delicately at the newly sown wildflower meadow and literally turn their noses up at it in disgust. It was most amusing.
ReplyDeleteMrs P, I've never heard of a freecycle site. Thank you, I will investigate.
Sarnia
DeleteI should have also suggested your local auction rooms.
Again a good source of garden furniture and possibly garden stuff in general especially tools.
Well, Mrs P, that freecycle site is certainly an entertaining read. An amazing number of sofas(leather, in excellent condition) and cockerels, and even baby quails or pygmy goats. There's a grand piano (I wish!!), a black bedhead in Belfast and a lovely cottage suite available for collection from the Isle of Skye but unless you're in the market for a faded green plastic table and chairs from Swansea, no garden furniture - it must be first-time buyers who snapped up all the stock.
ReplyDeleteAuction rooms? Not yet awhile, as it's wearing me out going a mile or so on the bus to the local shopping centre. A journey the full distance into town would necessitate lying down in a darkened room for a week! Thanks, anyway.
Just as well then that I've looked at your local auction rooms next sale and ......
DeleteNothing !
I wonder if you looked at ' freecycle' which covers the UK ?
You should be able to find a LOCAL free site.
Still, it kept you entertained.
I will try to keep my ' entertaining suggestions ' coming !
I googled my local town and many items were only a mile from the city centre or a few further out. I guess some of the owners must be quite desperate to be relieved of their bounty, especially in the Isle of Skye or Belfast. (Are we actually allowed to go that far for a headboard or is NI on the Government 'red list', along with the sausages?)
ReplyDeleteFreegle is worth a look too: www.ilovefreegle.org
ReplyDeleteIt was set up a few years ago when various UK freecycle groups didn't like the US-centric rules being applied to freecycle.
Currently no garden furniture on the Southamton site, but you never know.
We got a nearly new heavy duty wooden set with six chairs from freegle a few years back. I promised myself it would get folded up and stored safely in the garage every winter. Needless to say it didn't
: ( Currently, what's left of the table is awaiting the attentions of a saw and allen key so it will fit in the KA to be taken to the recycling centre. A few of the chairs will struggle on until we get replacements.
We also need a new shed. Not sure if it's worth demolishing the old one or just waiting for time and weather to complete the job for us!
I put things I don't want in a box on my garden wall .
ReplyDeleteItems range from jigsaws to plants -used to be those taken from cuttings but not recently.
Last year I put a box out with tomato plants in small pots.
I saw ,from my window ,someone take the box with all the plants!
Mr LJs collection of CDs of singers (who were even before my time) went too even before the jigsaws
Don’t want to boast, but we have just had a wonderful lunch out, in a lovely pub, with people!
ReplyDeleteIt was our very first meal out since JANUARY 2020 and so was a very special treat.
My daughter gave me a voucher on Mother’s Day for lunch at The Watership Down Inn, not far from us and where we used to take the kids to see the rabbits in the garden.
It has now turned into a very attractive Gastro-type pub and B&B.
Had a delicious lunch (and a pudding!) and it was very strange sitting somewhere with other people, all chatting away.
It made us almost feel normal again!
Sounds lovely Archerfile. Beats the nearest thing we've had to a lunch out since March 2020, that was a takeaway sandwich sitting at a table outdoors at Tebay Services when we visited our daughter in Edinburgh at the end of April.
DeleteTebay services is just such a lovely place. I always stopped there, when I used to travel to Scotland. It was always a lovely break, so unlike orher motorway services.
DeleteArcherphile, that sounds delicious. Well Done.
DeleteThe last meal that I ate in either a restaurant or pub, was Christmas Day 2019.
It was great fun, in an Indian restaurant, which was previously an old railway station.
Like OWIAS, I am also needing a new garden shed. This will only happen, after other things have been done.
ReplyDeleteI will be buying a plastic shed. This sounds strange, but they are very durable, need no maintenance, only requiring a flat area to put it on, which is a problem at the moment.
Also they are not as costly.
PS The one that I am looking at, is made from re-cycled materials, so is cost effective and will not be damaged, by the weather.
DeleteI was very surprised today when I contacted “Breast Screening” as my last appointment was Spring 2018 and this time being over 71 it was up to me to ask. However due to Covid I anticipated a long wait with many health checks being delayed but not a bit of it I was offered June 29th or 2nd July! The Unit has not long been in my town so the offer was for Andover, Winchester (or Basingstoke which I have chosen it will be in the car park of Kempshott Sainsbury’s and I know where that is 😀 yay)
ReplyDeleteSo with our dentist visit done it’s feet next week for Mr R, then my screening and then it must be Optician. Back to normal just trying to keep ourselves together🤣
Archerphile so pleased to hear of your very special meal today, no cooking for you tonight 👏🏻
....and I have just got the awful NHS Bowel Screening self test, in the post a few days ago..
DeleteMine was due end of last year Miriam but it was delayed then the Dr requested one along with blood tests etc when I was having some problems - thankfully all was ok. That’s the nice part 🤞🏼getting a good result 🤗
DeleteJust an extra - which I am sure is one too many. I know that I do this far too often, which annoys many, and understand why.
ReplyDeleteI have just opened and perused my next weeks, TV/Radio guide, which is not the Radio Times.
All I can see is Football, and many of my programmes I so enjoy, are now curtailed.
There are only 2 Doctors visits next week, along with 2 Corrie episodes, be they be an hour long.
At last, I will be able to watch, so much I have recorded and not yet viewed.
These are:-.
Unforgotten the lstest full series, The Pembrokeshire Murders, Grace, plus many others.
Pretty well up to date with screening but need to get a hearing test, really struggling with some of the dramas on TV.
ReplyDeleteMe too CC!
DeleteI have started having to put the subtitles on for some programmes - especially ones where people speak too quickly.
I’m not sure if it’s my ears or poor sound quality of our TV but it is becoming quite a problem.
I suffer with the same problem.
DeleteI did have a hearing test before Covid struck.
I was advised my peripheral hearing needed some help.
I politely refused.
I shall continue to suffer until my hearing becomes far worse, and then submit.
Or......
I shall continue to refuse, allow the world to become silent, and live in bliss.
There is a lot of very quick mumbling that goes on that’s for sure!
DeleteI watched A Town Like Alice last night and thoroughly enjoyed it. I had read the book many years ago but hadn’t seen the film with Virginia McKenna and Peter Finch.
ReplyDeleteCC I’m struggling to find any drama on TV that appeals. I like to relax and be entertained in the evening and judging by the trailers, the latest dramas seem full of misery, pain and angst. Thank goodness the evenings are light and I can carry on gardening until I can’t see what I’m doing. Does anyone else lose trowels on a regular basis?
Yes Soz , frequently.
DeleteAlso my favourite little secateurs, specially made for ladies small-sized hands. I lost them for a whole year, even raking through the compost heap searching for them. Then, suddenly discovered them lurking in the tangle of clematis roots, a bit rusty but still usable!
I lose all sorts, most of which will reappear later on once the rampant campanula has finished flowering.
ReplyDeleteI am sure there are mischievous pixies in the garden stealing my secateurs 😉
ReplyDeleteOh, that will be a garden gnome attack. My daughter bought Mr S a book on how to defend the house and garden against their incursions. Apparently your swimming pool is particularly vulnerable.
ReplyDelete😀 That book sounds very useful.Do you remember what it is called?
DeleteI have just found it on Amazon. I know a gardener who that would be a good present for, and maybe I will peek at it first!
DeleteCompare and contrast.
ReplyDeleteTwo women who were involved in developing the Covid injection which have saved millions of lives have been made Dames in the Queen's Honours lists
Two women who appear on dancing and cookery programmes on the television are also made Dames.
And Prue Leith, now a Dame, had the honesty to say she felt embarrassed to be honoured for just doing something she had always loved.
DeleteLanjan, perhaps it's pantomime season ; )
DeleteI think all aspects of their life and work are considered. For us, the public, we only see them in the light of their appearances on entertaining but mundane programmes and we don’t see their wider interests which affect individuals and society as a whole.
DeleteHmmm ,there are many people who do good works without seeking or getting recognition .
ReplyDeleteI once tried to find out a bit more about a particular Charity and learned that a well known person was a Patron of that Charity.
I contacted his PA who said he wasn't really involved but did go to Dinners and some meetings!
Regarding difficulty hearing tv programmes, I find bluetooth wireless earphones are great. The quality of sound is far clearer. I watch tv on an ipad but some tvs have bluetooth now
ReplyDeleteYes, Janice, 'How to survive a Garden Gnome Attack'. Chuck Sambuchino. (You will have guessed that it must be American from the comment about the swimming pool). As mysterious and unexplained happenings such as disappearing secateurs are known precursors of such an event, it would appear that you are at risk, so perhaps you had better read it first!
ReplyDeleteI will commence digging a moat immediately, particularly as the garden shears have now vanished. Your advice was very timely. Thank you.
DeleteI have also noticed big differences in volume whilst viewing TV programmes. I think it depends on the original broadcast and the service provider, along with the weather, which can affect the signal quality.
ReplyDeletePS I have lost a pair of scissors. I last used these in the garden, cutting twine to support plants onto canes/supports.
I cannot find them even with the bright red handles!!
Don't worry that is probably not the dreaded gnomes but the Wee Free Men who specialise in sheep stealing and as they are only 6 inches high they need scissors for shearing. Once June, shearing time, is over I'm sure the scissors will reappear.
DeleteAw, Crivens!
DeleteSadly and I cannot believe it, I actually forgot about Trooping the Colour this morning. 😣
ReplyDeleteAt least there is BBC2 tonight to watch the highlights.
....followed by Phil Collins. I will love this archive footage.
DeleteWell, a lovely pub lunch out with family yesterday.
ReplyDeleteTonight we have been summoned to the pavilion at the top of next door’s garden ( which has now also acquired a large timber built, illuminated, barbeque hut/station next to it).
I shall go with a Merry smile and clenched teeth as I climb the 30 solar-illuminated steps to be wined and dined and try very hard not to say something I might regret about their watch-tower!
I’m sure the meal will lovely and we’ll all have a jolly time, but we used to do that, discretely, at the bottom of their garden with just a few candles for illumination and only few yards from our garden door.
I know I sound mean and perhaps jealous but this great, brightly lit intrusion into the privacy of our garden has really got my goat!
Think positive. You are having a night out with friends + neighbours, and you are not doing the cooking.
DeleteI would so love to be able to enjoy, such a similar experience.
You and Mr. A are extremely lucky, so fully embrace it.
Others are still not in the same situation.
AP, Have you not sufficient replacement joints to qualify for exemption from the illuminated stairway to Heaven? I would only be prepared to manage that sort of a climb with two handrails.
DeleteI am sick of managing cookies
ReplyDeleteI really don't know what they're for.
I may be inept but I cannot accept
These things that I do so abhor..
Lanjan, great to see a poem again. It's been a long time.
ReplyDeleteAs for cookies - they are very irritating.
Testing
ReplyDeleteArcherfile, hope your evening went well and it was worth climbing all those steps! I have tried to imagine the view from your garden of this pavilion and illuminated steps! I hope too you managed not to say anything you regret as neighbour fall outs can be very awkward. We found that after living next to our erstwhile friends in Ledbury!
ReplyDeleteCookies are such a drag as accepting them is essential if you want to access the website and then for months you have to put up with tedious adverts for things you no longer need! The downside of technology!
Love the poem Lanjan. Good way to start the day😊 Agree about the cookies.
ReplyDeleteReport back on last night.
ReplyDeleteYes Miriam, we were lucky to be invited for a meal, of which I only had to prepare the desserts,
So sorry if complaining about it upset you. I thought you had had lunch with family fairly recently, but I may be wrong.
Sarnia, I used both my walking sticks for the steps, wouldn’t have been able to do them otherwise. Coming down was the worst bit as it was completely dark by then, no handrail but the solar lights did illuminate the risers.
It was very enlightening, sitting in the pavilion, to see exactly how much we are now overlooked. Almost every inch of our garden is visible, rather like sitting in the grandstand of a football ground with the pitch laid out before you. From having had complete privacy for 38 years, every time we now go into our garden to work or sit, walk down to the garage to get the car out or visitors arriving, coming and going through our gate can now be watched.
And they had the cheek to complain that because we had slightly trimmed our boundary trees along the road which were 40 feet high, they can now see the tops of lorries going along the road!!
However, the barbeque was delicious, the wine plentiful, (the desserts very good, though I say so myself) and the chat friendly. I didn’t say anything critical or complaining, we all had a good moan about the proposed Amazon warehouse up the road, exchanged family news and departed on our usual good-neighbourly terms. So a successful evening was had with an unspoken, inward annoyance at having to look down on our now completely exposed property.
It’s just going to take a lot of getting used to.
Sounds to me that you need to plant a row of leylandii along your boundary ; )
DeleteOr try nude sunbathing - if it doesn't scare them off, you could always get them charged with 'peeping Tom' ; )
Archerfile if you really want to take a rain check in future, you could say the steps are too much for you! No handrail is a liability! They obviously only see things from their own point of view. Maybe a rapidlygrowing tree would give some privacy or a garish gazebo! Dayglo would be good to break up the pleasant green vista! Or of course, you could move!!
DeleteOWIAS - that exactly what we had between our two gardens when we moved here 38 years ago. About 30 tall Leylandii.
DeleteBut there is an electricity line that runs along the boundary to the rest of the cottages in the road and after 1987, Southern Electricity came and insisted on them all being cut down! 😥 They said that, in windy conditions, the trees could cause the power line to fail. So they cut them all down and put up a larch lap fence instead, to our great sadness.
Still, we haven’t had so many power cuts since. In the great storm of 1987 we were without any sort of power ( we have no gas here) for two and a half weeks which was a nightmare!
How about a giant inflatable lorry in your garden? Your local bouncy castle company should be able to help you out : )
DeleteWhat beautiful weather we are having. I know I really should be packing and washing walls and skirting boards but I’ve said sod it.
ReplyDeleteGoing to lounge on my swing seat and look at garden and read whilst I still can. Well, until my bloody brother and sister in law turn up once again to disturb me. Lockdown was good for some of us unsociable ones.
Hopefully we will be moving on the 30th if all solicitors get their fingers out.
Mmm, sitting in the garden reading a book versus washing paintwork, difficult choice PtbY
DeleteIndeed 🤣🤣🤣
DeleteIf I promise to be very, very quiet, can I come an join you please?
DeleteYou sure can. Lol
DeleteThe dreaded black fly have struck again on the broad beans all of a sudden. Have taken out the tops and watered with soapy water but I’m not sure it works. They strike every year and last year got to the runners as well fortunately on a small scale. I’m thinking much as I love eating them, I may not do them again especially as it is difficult to find room for the tomatoes which at the moment are in pots. As you go on, you do learn!!
ReplyDeletePtby, exciting times and will think of you on 30th!
AP, 30 steep steps with two walking sticks - that's dreadful! Nobody I know would expect me to cope with that, and I'm afraid I wouldn't be willing to agree to it. You must find it exhausting. Is there no access from the front of the houses?
ReplyDeleteSarnia, To explain the geography I’d have to draw you a map!
DeleteOur semi-detached cottages are built endways on to the road, as was the custom here for coppice workers cottages in the 1800s
So both our gardens run parallel with the road, our is nearest to the road and theirs is the one away from the road. Our garden is on the flat, level with the road. Theirs slopes quite steeply upwards along its length because of a long embankment to another road.
So, having built their pavilion at the top of the slope, halfway along the length, it cannot but help looking down on us
There is no access to it from their front garden but we have a gate between our 2 back gardens as they have a right of access across our property to get to the road.
It’s very difficult to describe I’m afraid.
Archerphile the neighbours garden all sounds a bit Hollywood to me. The previous lower key candlelit 🕯🍷evenings sounded more intimate and relaxing to me. Unless of course they were Mrs Bouquet type candlelit suppers 🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteWith the periwinkle plates!
DeleteHand painted of course Ev 😀
DeleteArcherphile.
ReplyDeleteI obviously wrote my post wrongly - it was only meant to be friendly but I phrased it wrong...Sorry. 😣
I was sitting in the garden, quietly reading a book but I knew England had scored, due to loud cheers from around!
ReplyDeleteTo add. I bought a pair of glasses with sunglass lenses, done to my prescription for reading. I was not sure if these would work - but there are brilliant. It was an experiment, so I only bought cheap frames.
These will be up-graded to proper sunglasses frames, in the future.
Lanjan thinks cookies are a bother.
ReplyDeleteMe? I think I'll go and eat another
Three or four,
Or maybe more.
About them you won't hear me grouse.
Except when crumbs clog up my mouse.
I just reject them all. But I love my very tasty Peanut Cookies (or should that be biscuits)?
DeleteLove the poem OWIAS - these have been missed.
Love it OWIAS.
DeleteOWIAS, that little poem was brilliant! 🐭
DeleteThank you, AP, now I understand. It all sounds very OTT to me as well. I think when they erect the pearly gates at the top of the stairway to heaven will be the time to bow out!
ReplyDeleteThe ice-cream van has just appeared. Whenever I hear the chimes, I always think of Mr. Snowy + Nigel.
ReplyDeleteHmm…
ReplyDelete18 months of self-isolation, wrapped up in cotton wool, no contact with anyone except the Covid tester and vaccination staff.
48 hours after first visit to the pub with daughter and next door’s barbecue and what happens?
Wake in the night with a fearsome sore throat and hugely swollen neck, hardly able to breath let alone sleep, and now cannot swallow, talk or open mouth very far.
Try to look down throat and see an abcess forming. Lovely!
Managed to get a GP appt this afternoon, hopefully to get some antibiotics.
But seriously, this has made me think. Does having been isolated from most of humanity for so long make you more likely to pick up infections. Has my natural immunity system been compromised?
Of course it all might be a great coincidence, but it does seem strange. It might be worth the scientists investigating.
Awaiting further news if/when you're up to it.
DeletePerhaps it's the sterile environment we are encouraged to live in.
Hope you feel better soon Archerfile
DeleteThat sounds awful, truly unpleasant and painful. I'm so glad you got a GP appointment so quickly.
ReplyDeleteI agree with Sarnia AP.
DeleteAlthough I will add could it the result of literally joining back into society? For me it has been my jaw (I believe it is called TMJ) but it is coming in waves and is very painful in the ear and jaw and throat on one side unconsciously clenching jaw especially in the daytime
but come evening time it mostly disappears. I have recently seen my dentist so if it continues will check with her again but it does appear to be now that life has come partially out of lockdown that even looked forward to happenings can produce it. Also getting tired more quickly but then the weather is hot.
I wish you well and hope for a positive result for you later this afternoon 🤔
PS have also spoken with Pharmacist and know which painkillers I can use alongside a particular tablet that I take as and when needed I manage with the least I can.
ReplyDeleteMiriam respect to you 👏🏻 we are fortunate to have superb Pharmacists at our very local chemist attached to Mr R Health Centre so no need to go into town.
hope you get much better soon AP.
ReplyDeleteArcherphile - I hope you feel better soon and have plenty of medicine to recover.
ReplyDeleteLanjan and others - I have barely listened to the episodes as they are drama filled or ridiculously slapstick in their humour. Maybe one or two touching or emotional moments.
Last weekend I went to visit my brother in Portland. 183 miles on Friday then again on Sunday. He was so pleased to see me and cried! I was very calm because he was my little brother so I,for once, didn't cry.
Once more having to have tests because of other scare of spots inside. We have to wait and see.
Had breakfast up at Jailhouse Cafe in the prison there. Wonderful view of six ships anchored in the harbour as we looked down from the benches. We also visited on Saturday night to see them lit up but stayed outside the prison walls!
Quite tired and need to get gardening but too hot!
Now cricket is no longer on (!!!) I will watch football!
Spicy - I'm so glad you managed to see your little, very tall brother at last and retained your composure for his sake.
DeleteDo rest after such an arduous journey.
As for the Archers, life is stranger than fiction.
Good wishes for diagnosis, treatment and recovery to Archerphile.
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts coincide with Basia...... too much sterility !
Spiceycushion- I sincerely wish your tests do not pick up yet more problems.
And so very pleased you have managed to see your brother. I remember that it was possibly to say goodbye.
I am sure you are very relieved that you have managed to do so at last.
No idle chit-chat from me tonight.
ReplyDeleteAll I want to say is:-
I wish You All Well.
To add I have also noticed others in my family, picking up "bugs".
The Little Doll came back from nursery last week, with tonsilitis which she has passed onto her Mum.
Grand nephew, the 7 year old is back going to Beavers and football training. He also was ill last week, sore throat, snotty nose etc..
I am of the opinion, as already mentioned, that our lives over the last year + more, have become too sterile.
I personally think, for very many various reasons too numerous + boring to post, that the June 21st cease of rules should go ahead as it was originally planned.
Controversial - I agree, but with the proviso of mandatory wearing of masks in indoor places.
....for just another 4 weeks. Then it should be up to individuals and their own risk factor.
DeleteThen the protesters will no doubt say not a complete unlocking 🙄 Either way I shall still wear a mask and try to keep a distance and deffo still use gel!
DeleteMe too Lady R
DeleteWhat I wanted to say, before I totally digressed, is that:-
ReplyDeleteBBC 2 on Thursday at 8.00pm is continuing the series of the programmes, showing the developement of RHS Bridgewater in Manchester.
It will intererst some, but not all.
Archerphile 🤞🏼have medication now to help your pain.
ReplyDeleteI mistyped my post and it is ambiguous. I meant to say it is my brother who is having tests to see what is wrong, not me! Sorry to mislead everyone!
ReplyDeleteUpdate on throat for these who kindly showed an interest:
ReplyDeleteQuite a dramatic afternoon. Went to see GP ( a new, rather gorgeous young one,)
Took one look in my mouth which, I could only just open, and said - that needs lancing in hospital straight away or it’s going to completely block your windpipe!
Our local hosp is Basingstoke but he said their ENT unit wouldn’t be open so I’d have to go to Frimley Park in Surrey which is miles away. Had to sit in waiting room while he phoned them to let them know I was coming.
Nail biting time. Came back & said B’stoke could see me after all but I had to get there very quickly before they went home.
Dear Mr A drove like the wind, breaking all the speed limits, and the ENT staff were there waiting for me at the door, which was lovely.
Long story short - had camera put up my nose & down my throat (yuk) larynx & pharynx very swollen but consultant agreed to try antibiotic and steroids before operating.
But he wanted me to go into hospital overnight to have them intravenously.
I pleaded to go home with the tablets and they will ring me tomorrow to ensure the swelling is subsiding
Now Spicy, I’so glad you saw little brother and I do hope he goes on well. The views from Portland can be spectacular, especially with all those cruise ships anchored offshore. Keep well Spicy and everyone and thanks for your supportive concern. It is much appreciated.
My goodness AP what a to do it’s incredible how quickly that came on thank goodness you were seen so soon by the Dr or you would have to have gone straight to A&E that’s for sure. We do hope you feel the benefit of the meds as quickly as possible. Get an early night. 🥰
DeleteGosh Archerfile, hope the medication does its job quickly.
DeleteBest wishes, Archerfile. It must be very uncomfortable and hope the tablets improve things overnight. Spicy, lovely you could see your brother at last!
ReplyDeleteGood grief, Archerphile. What an afternoon. Hope the tablets kick in really quickly. 🤞 for you. A good nights sleep is needed to get you on the road to recovery.
ReplyDeleteGlad you got out and about Spicy. Take it easy, don’t go mad with the gardening.
Thinking about you Archerphile.
ReplyDeleteAs Ptb Y says I hope the tablets have kicked in
Spicycushion take it easy before your son's "Big Day"
Stop making the sandwiches for the Cubs.
Let their mums do that..
AP, as someone who has been cursed with throat problems in the past, I hope beyond hope that things are much better today. And Spicy, gently does it! But I'm sure your doing all the right things to help with your recovery.
ReplyDeleteI've also been thinking about people being more/less susceptible to illness after our long periods of not being around others. I wonder too if the cases of infections such as MRSA have dropped dramatically both in and out of hospitals due to everyone washing their hands much more frequently.
For those vaguely interested, my little cycling holiday to Dumfries & Galloway was fantastic. The weather was very kind for someone pootling around on a bike - not too hot, tiny spot of rain and the wind was usually going the way I wanted it too! Sights were seen, friends were visited and exercise was had...
Glad you had a good trip Gary, sounds great.
DeleteI was wondering the same thing about infections, especially gastroenteritis. My youngest grandchild was born last August so had very little contact with other people to build up her immunity. She started nursery at the beginning of May and has already had two upper respiratory infections and has a permanent runny nose.
We lived in Hong Kong from Katy being 3 months old to 2 1/2. Over that time she had one tummy upset, no colds etc. Then when we came back to UK, she started at nursery and it was one cold after another ending in glue ear. She was constantly on antibiotics but when I queried the long term effects of these we were given mucodyne which thins down the mucous which causes glue ear. It worked for her but subsequently was taken off the list of prescription drugs as it was said it wasn’t proven! Have gone off the point which is that as she hadn’t been exposed to bugs here she was particularly susceptible to infection which could be the case for us after the Covid restrictions. Maybe it is wise to continue to wear masks in certain situations and not get too close to people outside our usual group.
ReplyDeleteQuick update: had 2 lots antibiotics (they are extra strong & NOT penicillin which I’m allergic to) and steroids. Slept much better, could breathe better, uvula now dangling down nicely and not deviated thus almost blocking my windpipe, swelling has gone down a bit. Hospital consultant did ring me this morning to see how I was, I was impressed! If any more probs they have booked me in for a CT Scan but hope it won’t be needed
ReplyDeleteNow Gary, of course we are interested in you cycling trip, been waiting for the news. It sounded perfect and I’m so glad you got the break you probably needed.
Hope everyone else esp. Spicy and Lady R are doing well and are not too encumbered by your medical problems.
At least the elongation of the lockdown won’t affect the wedding too much Spicy, and I hope it goes ahead with great success.
Glad you're being so carefully monitored, AP. Gary, your bike ride sounds wonderful and all the meeting up good for the soul. Just heard that my son is coming Sunday-Wednesday, without the family this time. That's the second time in a month and things are very slowly beginning to get done. Even played a service on Sunday with a bit of quiet socialising afterwards without being exhausted on Monday.
ReplyDeleteMy garden is now a bit too much of a holiday zone in this lovely weather, so that after a leisurely breakfast of coffee and croissants on the deck, with (at last!) its forest green patio set (which Daniel calls the 'cafe') I find I expect the staff to do the clearing away and washing up, but unfortunately they seem to have gone off-duty!
Seems like things are really looking up for you Sarnia at last. I am so pleased for you.😃
DeleteOh dear Sarnia how very inconsiderate of them 😂
DeleteArcherphile that sounds an awful experience. That GP was brilliant, as were the ENT staff, who were prepared to wait for you to arrive. That is just wonderful care.
ReplyDeleteI was often late leaving work, due to receiving a 'phone call from a GP, asking if I would wait for a short while. This I always did, as it was nearly always for an urgent prescription, usually for antibiotics.
I was pleased to do this, as I was a part of the comnunity NHS service. It was sometimes slightly annoying...when it happened at 6.30pm and I still had a 25 min drive home...
I’m sure that was greatly appreciated Miriam. As you say, brilliant community care.
DeleteLet's not get ahead of ourselves, AP. Just Carpe Diem and all that, but thanks anyway for the kind thought. Too soon for the organ-playing though - still too much excitement for one week. I can just about manage two services a month if I stay on piano. Flute will also have to wait awhile, as my fingers have got too stiff and my lip muscles have gone flabby so I've lost the fine control of my embouchure. All in good time!
ReplyDeleteThat sounds very sensible, not too try and rush, but how lovely you are even able to manage 2 services a month. I hope they are uplifting for you,
DeleteMy younger son is travelling round Scotland for the next few days too Gary .
ReplyDeleteHe bases himself in Glasgow and Edinburgh and then takes himself off by train to various places and goes for walks .
Today he has walked about 8 miles by the side of the Tweed to Melrose and to the Leaderfoot Viaduct.
Tomorrow to Inverness .
Nowhere is better at this time of year than Scotland
A fortnight's rail trip round Scotland is still on my bucket list.
I will not be doing any walking
I love the Dumfries and Galloway area..
You lucky beggar!
So much for my comments yesterday, about that I didn't think the delay with the rules was necessary.
ReplyDeleteThis is now the opposite.
On looking at my news feed this morning, I found my area is now one of those highlited for extra gov. support. This is due to the rapid rise of cases in the last week. To think 3 weeks ago, my area was classed as covid surpressed.
So this is no uneccesary travelling out of my area, surge testing and pushing vaccines forward.
I have a theory, be it right or wrong. Chester Races has opened up with a limited no. of spectators, supposedly socially distanced. A few hotels, bars + restaurants are now closed. Is this a coincidence?
Saturday 29th May was a races day with spectators. The figures used was 7th-12th ie last week. It seems too coicindental not to be part of the new problem.
DeleteWales 'out of bounds' again then, Miriam?
ReplyDeleteYes...and family in Cheshire East..😭😭
DeleteI am Cheshire West.
I was penciled in for a "sleep over" this weekend. This was looking after the kids, whilst Mum + Dad had a date night away, just the two of them.
DeleteThis is now cancelled, as is their overnight booked hotel room. Not sure yet, if they will get a refund for the deposit paid.
So sorry to hear that you have had to change your plans Miriam.
DeleteBut you can still meet your Cheshire East family out of doors, surely, in the park or at the zoo? It's not as if they are any distance away.
ReplyDeleteHow disappointing, Miriam. I have found people are relaxing just a little bit too much. At little Tesco there is a stop and go light before you go in which certainly limits the number in there but people are quite careless about being near to others. Masks are worn though but Katy tells me she is the only one wearing a mask at school as the government has said it isn’t essential. Bear in mind under 18’s are not vaccinated! I‘m not paranoid but still think we should be careful
ReplyDeleteCould not agree more Ev 👍
DeleteI am going back to home delivery of my shopping from Sainsburys. Although they still have anyI- Covid measures in place very few people use the provided their hands on entering (especially men, I notice) and social distancing is practically nil.
DeleteI think I might well have picked up my throat virus there last Thursday. I had become lax about wearing neoprene gloves when shopping and just relied on gel. But when you think how many shoppers pick up goods, put them back on shelves, handle loose fruit and veg. to say nothing of leaning over you to get goods, It’s almost inevitable to pick something nasty up and not necessarily Covid.
‘Anti- Covid’ and ‘provided gel provided on their hands’ Sorry!
DeleteI understand your point AP and agree - although some people may not gel up because they have done so before leaving their car (which I have done but always do it again because other people will not know this) just as strange are people who do not use the gel when leaving because they have been touching many items and surfaces. Alarmingly
DeleteThe public often straight past the gel stands when entering and leaving hospitals 😱
Do hope each day will bring you relief from your very nasty throat infection so frightening
for you and so sudden…
On a brighter note we had a visit yesterday from my IOW sister and brother in law whom we have not seen since Feb 2020! I can’t tell you how wonderful that was - such a big hug 🤗 and lots of face to face chat. I felt alive again if that makes sense. My other sister and her husband in Cambs because of circumstances both ends we have not been able to see for 6yrs now but we chat regularly and it is just an accepted situation.
ReplyDeleteThat sounds wonderful Lady R, what a lovely day for you
DeleteThat makes total sense, as to that wonderful feeling of being alive again.
DeleteIt is a great.
Yes, that makes sense to me, Lady R. Constant lockdown and isolation has a strange, cumulative effect of distancing you from any other kind of reality and I for one felt my sense of identity gradually diminishing to the point at which I hardly existed. I'm now going on the bus once a week for my Sainsbury's shop and the enormity of it is exhausting. Now it's proper summer weather and visitors can come to the garden I'm better at being with people, but still only two or three at a time.
ReplyDeleteSunday morning services with thirty people (fancy having to book to go to church!) are overwhelming so I'm glad there are still only two a month. But yes, I'm beginning to feel more alive and have more energy to tackle the domestic chaos, one small piece at a time.
I have become almost claustrophobic and don’t want to go out much at all
ReplyDeleteWe just had to make the final payment for our short cruise in September (delayed from last year) and I’m not really looking forward to it - especially the travelling to the port & all the border force palaver.
That’s if it still goes ahead, of course and Norway will let us disembark by by then!
You will be fine. It is still 3 montha away and by then, all will be as normal, as we will ever be.
DeleteThink positive and look forward to it.
Things will look different, once you have overcome this bug.
I checked my local situation again today.
ReplyDeleteThe advice, but not rules set in stone, are;-
Do not travel outside of your local area unless absolutely necessary
When meeting up with family + friends in a group of 6, do so outside rather than inside.
Continue to work from home.
There is no ban on going to the pub or similar, but the advice is to continue and maintain, strict social 2m distancing, masks etc.
I was in the supermarket this morning, and it was very different from the last 2 weeks visits, in that all seemed far more cautious.
Oh well, it is what it is so if all follow the guidelines, then the situation will revert back, to where it was.
...and I forgot the garlic! This for me is like a pub with no beer. No garlic bread tonight, as planned. 😭
DeleteOn a more cheerful note...
ReplyDeleteI "pruned" my shrubs this morning, which is giving them a short back + sides using the hedge-trimmer. They are well hacked back, but will soon grow again. That was the easy part, it was the clearing all the debris up, which took the time.
Thank goodness it is garden bin emptying on Friday.
Very humid + overcast now - but no rain nor storms forecast for me. I would love an overnight downpour.
PS I tried to do some ironing this afternoon. I had to give this up, as I was steaming, more than the iron 😂
DeleteI have a fit of ironing from time to time. Then the clothes sit forlornly on the spare bed until my cherubs finally manage the difficult task of putting them away.
DeleteYes, I have some ironing to do but it is still so hot! The thunderstorm has not arrived yet. I took the boys out this morning early for me leaving at 9! Had breakfast when I came back. We went down to the creek and it was lovely just sitting on the bench down there with just a bit of breeze from the sea. I met a lady on holiday here and she was saying she had come over as a hold but this is her first adult visit and she finds it a beautiful place. Who needs to go abroad when the weather is like this?!
ReplyDeleteI had. a newsletter from the Donkey Sanctuary. Katy adopted one called Daisy on my behalf for my birthday. Daisy is 31 and she is in the field with others designated as the diet field for fat donkeys! We have so much in common! Katy chose her as my Mum was called Daisy. She hated the name but it is pretty and becoming popular again now.
That lady came to the island as a child not a hold!
ReplyDeleteI know that I already posted too much, but I need some help.
ReplyDeleteGardeners, and all.
I have just seen a strange insect on a rose, which I have never seen before, cannot identify nor find on the tinternet.
It looked like a flying ant, as to the head + wings, but the body was quite large in comparison and bright yellow.
I have no idea.
Can any-one help? Also is it good bug or a bad one?
PS It didn't look like a wierd ladybird as no spots nor hard shell.
DeleteI’ll get Mr A to see if he can help, as a member of the Amatuer Entomologist Society.
DeleteThey might have some information on file.
One of the peonies in my garden, they are just coming out beautifully but I fear they will be ruined by the heavy rain storms we are expecting tonight
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